all my freinds being so caught up with sex. its all they ever think about. i just gets damn annoying sometimes. but dont get me wrong i mean sex is great fun, a wonderful act of nature, but its not the be all and end all of humen kind.
Actualy it is. It's our stongest impulse and all we should ever do, but watching tv while your getting a bj isn't bad either.
i actually agree with you, i dont think sex is everything...some people dont see beyond that when looking for someone of the opposite sex. Sex is great, but there are other things, perhaps not as fulfilling in physical terms, but hey, the physical wears out quickly (from a few seconds to a minute) but emotions that come with love and affection may last a lifetime. I guess once you understand this, you are ready to have a relationship, cos after all, sex is important in a relationship but if there's only sex and nothing of the other, it wont have a future. anyways, I'm glad there's someone who thinks like you do. Good on you pal!
no its not. sex is just that, sex. nothing more, nothing less. two people sticking there parts together. thats all it is. and part of the point of this thread was that all my freinds are beetween 15-17. i really should have mentioned that.
At 14 you are a little young. But sex is one of our strongest biological drives. Between having sex, we first spend a few hours relaxing from the release of sexual tension. And then we start to build that tension up again. And then we start to think about the next time we will be having sex. And then we have sex and are released again. And so it goes on. We are programmed to want and need sex. Some more than others, but all of us need sex. As well as the release of tension, it is very pleasurable, very intimate and a whole lot of fun. Mark
yah, i am kinda young by your standerds, but back in germeny, most kids start at 13 and nobody pays it any mind. i come to the states and everone says, "your too young". weird how things can change when you move.
IF you think that sex is just about "two people sticking there parts together", then you're sadly mistaken. There is so much more to sex and sexuality. And your friends are at an age where it's relatively new and they have a lot of questions and curiosities. Completely natural. I'm sure you're sick of it, but maybe you can try to understand or appreciate where they're coming from.
i wish i didnt want sexual gratification so much. so many more dicisions would be made rationally, i'd have so much more free time...so much less to worry about... how ever sexual stimilus is a must, and if you think otherwise, you're obviously not a seratonin (sp?) junkie like i am. chocolate, spicy food, pot, sex, and sleeping my 5 fav things in the world, all of which load your brain up with seratonin.
Maslovs hierarchy of needs. Survival then SEX. That is, food / water / clothing / shelter. Once those issues are dealt with, we then turn to sex. It is our second strongest need. That's why, if we have somewhere to sleep and three meals a day, our free time is devoted to thinking about / talking about / doing sex. Cbrmale
3?? dam i only eat once a day, and my attention is still turned twords sex, even when I dont want it to be!
