Im not sure if I should go for him

My dilemma isnt an easy one
Well so I like this guy Tony. He's amazing, I have been friends with him for four years, and i realized I really liked him about three months ago. We hung out all summer, and he even slept over a few times but didnt fool around or anything. He's funny, nice, artistic, and scruffy but sexy. I want to say tell him that i really like him, but there are a couple things holding me back. Well one of my good friends really likes him, they have messed around a few times, but I dont think he likes her because he wont date her after she has tried talking to him about it several times. So i would feel terrrible doing that to her. Then he also lives 4 hours from me now. Thats a problem as well, but he might be moving close again next summer and school year. Tony's best friend told me he doesnt think he likes me like that, and if thats correct then that is okay, there are plenty of great guys out there. But his best friend doesnt know as much about our friendship as he thinks he does. By that i mean the great conversations we have and such. Well I really like this guy, and I am thinking of making a move over thanksgiving break because we will both be home. I am not sure if it would be a good idea though... i could really hurt one of my friends, and I am not even sure if he likes me as more than a friend, I have been getting mixed signals. Im scared of rejection. Can you all give me some feedback - if i should go for him or not. Thank you.

 

don`t put-off 'making your move', because you never know when it could be too late.
he may or may not be interested the same as you, but there`s only one way to find out.
as for the friend, well he`s not interested in her anyway.
it all goes down to: what you are willing to live with - the possibilities of pursuing, and not pursuing.

 

Thank you, that is true
I believe I am willing to take the risk
If I dont do anything about it then certainly nothing will happen

 

Take the risk. Believe me, if you don't you will spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been.