Im NOT hott.

you know what I cant figure out? why all my guy pals on the net and guy strangers on here thik Im so flippinghott andsuch..but in person...guys really dot seem to like me? I mean...seriously..whats the deal?

 

oh manda you are TOO hot! dont anyone wver let you hear otherwise, you deserve to hear the truth. your HOTT!!!

 

but you see...thats coming from ainternet person..not to metion a girl..why dont I ever hear this from guys I knowin the flesh? that must count for something.

 

Guys, are shallow assholes. I know, I am one.

 

I know what you mean ConcreteGirl. The same thing happens to me. I don't think I'm anything special and I think in person most people say the same thing.

I'm me...what else can I say?

*laughs*

 

I am the same way

 

The internet is weird .

 

yea i hear, if you have sex with the internet, your palms get all hairy. and your spine shifts a centimeter to the left, which causes paralysis after 35 years!

 

Well come to Windsor when you're down this way an I'll tell you you're hot in person

 

No offense and I'm not trying to be mean but are you trying to get attention?? I mean not many people just blirt that out.

 

On the computer your fake.. and all they see is a picture.. when you show them a picture it could be a fake picture or one where your looking your best but really in real life I'm sure that your not trying to look your best and plus guys in real life probably like you for your personality and may not like girls that try to look their best ALL the time.. In pictures your basically expected to look nice and smile.

 

yeah..icecream chocolates..I wast out to get attention..I just find it cofusing..I suppose its harder to really know someone online but my personality doesnt change from when Im talking or typing. *shrugs*

 

i say just eat it up while you get it... the compliments i mean.

as long as it's not making you feel bad, it's all good, could even be a confidence booster that will help in real life.

 

I'm with tigerlily. I've never received a compliment about my looks in real life, and Holly started a fan club for me on here! hehe talk about a self esteem boster!

Ain't nothing wrong with that as long as you don't let it go to yer head.

 

heehee..good call...but psilo dear you ARE hott!! *salivates*

 

LoL yes...yes he is *licks lips* hehe and from your pics you are cute i think

 

I get the same thing, Amanda, my dear

 

You are pretty and I don't know you but I can tell you that men like charming women and if you are polite and a little coy with ones who you don't know I promise that they will get a chance to see both your inner and your outter beauty. It's not all about looks it's also about how you walk and how you speak and just in general how you carry yourself.

 

hey you're on a hippy forum, what else are you going to hear but positivity?

and its alot easier to lay down an anonymous compliment than it is to give one in person - we're self doubters too ya know.

i wouldnt worry too much. you have a unique look and seem generally happy. just keep smiling - someone will fall hard for you, guaranteed. You might have to get out of vulcan though - but it can be nice to have someone from your home town..

 

thanks wideyed.. haa..vulca isnt my hometown..ad we are moving yet again shortly!