It's been awhile since Ive been spanked. I asked a friend of mine to do it, and he said he was picking me up tomorrow ad I was going to be punished. Just like that. Wow. So should I tell him what to do or just let him do what he's going to?
you need to tell him what you want. And if it is stll too hard when he does it just let him know you want it softer. Set up a "safe" word so he knows when to stop. Have fun, I love being spanked andhaving my hair pulled it increase the excitement
A safe word is always a most if you are to have trust doing bdsm. Pick something a bit weird , something you would never say in the bedroom. My girlfriends word is bananas.
My girlfriend and I use OKLAHOMA. We found it funny that it was the safe word in the Jackass movies whenever they needed a skit to stop, so now we use it.
:2thumbsup: So we went for a walk on the ocean. Nobody was around. I got a spanking right by the sand dunes! Never been spanked outside where somebody might see. It was his idea. But I loved it. Think I will be asking him a little more often.