Well this is how it goes. I've been going out with this great guy for 2 months already but we've been friends for about a year. Almost every night I keep having a dream of him leaving me, cheating on me, emotionally hurting me and everytime I would wake up in tears or angry. I don't understand because he is a great guy he never showed any interest in other girls, he has never hurt me in any way. He does all these sweet thing to show me that he really likes me and I still dream the worst of him....What is this supose ti mean?? Its driving me crazyyyyyyy!!!
Did you have boyfriends in the past scar you or hurt you by leaving you or cheating on you? I think you may have made a barrier somewhere in your heart causing you to have fear of love due to how others may have hurt you in the past. I think your unconscious is trying to tell you to clear these scars that have been done on to you away or it may end up sneaking out in a way to cause problems to your current relationship. I could be wrong though.
I had one boyfriend that cheated on me, but that couldn't be the reason I was very young and had other boyfriends after him. Could it maybe that his past is haunting me??..He did some stuff that he is not proud of when he was younger and there is one in particular that I can not understand. His best firiend's girlfriend wanted to sleep with him, so he told his friend that and he wouldn't believe him. So to prove him that he was honest, he slept with her. I just cannot understand how he could do something like that to his best friend, there are other ways to show him that she was going to cheat on him...but as he said he was young and stupid. I just thought if he could do that to his best friend (they still are good buddies) than he could do the same to me. I know people change...its just bugging me. And he still talks to her like it never happaned...well at least it seems like that to me...I barely think of it...How do I get over this??..Could this be why I'm having these dreams all the time??...
I have wierd dreams like this about my boyfriend as well. I think it may be because your afraid to have any of that happen to you and you think about it a lot so you have dreams about it. I know that my boyfriend would never cheat on me so i really dont care about the dreams. Just forget about the past and think about your future. Thats what i do and so far its working
