I'm in love with my best friends girlfriend

Ok I need relationship advice so i'm going to give you the whole story. I'm in love with a girl named Sarah. She is funny sweet and I'm always happy when I'm with her. The only reason I know her though is because she hangs out with my friend Henry. I told my best friend Gary that I was in love with her thinking he would keep it a secret. Then just to be a jerk he goes out with her, the girl I liked in the first place and begins telling people that I liked her (luckily she didn't hear of it.) He then broke up with her because he found out that she was bisexual. He has however told me that he still likes her. Then she went out with my friend Henry. I hang out with Henry alot so I got to see her alot. Henry is thinking about breaking up with her which is good news to me. However, someone recently told me that she isn't even friends with me. She just hangs out with me because I'm there. So how can I get her to go out with me or at least get her to become friends with me?

 

She seems to be going out with all the other guys she hangs with so why not just ask her, tell her how you feel, what's the worst thing that can happen, she might turn you down ? Or maybe she just might take you up on it, you will never know if you don't try.

Peace

 

over and over shes being dumped by shallow jerks
ya wanna be her freind then be there for her
ya wanna be more then just assure her you'd never leave her for such lame reasons





tell her u like her and want to makre something real that lasts and i bet ya u get what ya want

 

thats a song haha. "my best friends girrrrrrlfriend" hahha.

 

i know how u feel im going through something similar, it sucks doesn't it. dont worry m8 it sounds like you'll get through.

 

take a chance just ask her out

and yea ive been there i guess

 

Your friends both knew you liked her, but went out with her anyway?

I dont think the girl is your biggest problem - i think you need to sort those "friends" of yours out!

Every girl here will say "jsut ask her out" but its totally not that simple so i can see where you're coming from. If you want something youve gotta reach out and grab it. MAKE yourself known to her. Speak up - talk to her directly. In my experience girls have always had this 6th sense and can see right through dishonesty... thats kind of a reason why they're so amazing - so just be yourself and get to know her. If its meant to happen, it either will, or youll get an opportunity. These kind of things have a way of working out like that.