I'm dumping my girlfriend

or not dumping her bt no longer keeping her as a friend because this is the message she sent me today to cancel our plans tonight...not even a phone call. Luckily my other friend who is down from HSU was free so we had dinner together and talked shit. The chick who cancelled on me has been demoted from inner friend circle to yeah you're fun so we can still hang once in awhile but I'm not answering my cells at midnight if you call crying with boy troubles. girls who ditch their girls for their new boyfriends are stupid...not cool. Would you be pissed too? But yeah this is what the chick who cancelled on me sent me:
Might have to change plans to Thursday night, dear...My sexy navy boy has a game planned out for Thursday night "a match" as he calls it with his American Army game on his puter.....So we can't go out to dinner with my 'rents Thursday night , so we're moving dinner with the 'rents tonight. Thus, you might just have to come over here in Ballsbrook for my home cooked meal on Thursday night.....
Cwall me today...I will be around and if I'm not, it's cuz I'm at the GYMums....

 

rearranging her whole fucking life over her dumbshit 19 year old boyfriend who constantly talks in a fake british accent and has nipple rings and treats her like shit. My friend's 26 and has everything going for her. She lives her life for whatever guy she's with at the time it's sickening. I;m not mad at her for cancelling on me but also for cancelling on her parents and just being so fucking desperate...she's been this way with guys since high school and they always leave her because they sense the desperation. its sad but im sick of being there for her when he treats her like shit and then getting messages like this. we've just grown apart...she's an eternal 16 year old and needs to grow the fuck up.

 

i wouldnt be pissed unless she does that shit a lot. then yeah, i would be greatly annoyed.

 

since we were 16...she's done it. in fact when i was 16 and she was 17 she went after my boyfriend and my boyfriend at the time gave me the note she gave him. Then when I was 21 she came over to my fiance's house and was wearing a skirt with panties that didn't cover too much sat indian styale on the couch facing us and started flirting with him when I was in the kitchen mixing drinks. It made him so uncomftrable that she wasn't allowed in his house again. I thought she grew up and changed but god she always puts her boyfriends before everything even her own life and her family it's sick. I mean look she cancelled dinner with her parents who she hasn't see in 3 months and are paying for her college so her boyfriend can play an online computer game and she thinks it's cute and funny. he's 19 years old and she's 26 but they're a freaking perfect match. god my mom seriously smack me if i cancelled on her so my moron of a boyfriend could play a computer game.

 

wait a minute...she has to hold his hand while he plays a computer game? Why does she have to be there? Moral support? Afraid he's going to steal something? Or she's brainless?

 

hah, yes, sounds familiar. Ok, my friend isn't as bad as that, but I've seen her once in the last two months, talked to her maybe twice on top of that. Including the time I asked her to go to the hospital with me but she couldn't, busses weren't running when I was done at the hospital so I had to walk home with a throat infection. Mm, yeah, great stuff. She's always so unreachable, has no cell and spends almost every spare moment with her boy.

I mean, I can appreciate the importance of a boyfriend, especially your first serious boyfriend. but... I hate being blown off like this too. It sucks as. I'm not demoting her or anything, but she hasn't been as flaky as your friend sounds like :S Hopefully she'll smarten up pretty soon (yours that is)

 

i'd be pretty annoyed, myself.

 

oh and im so not freaking eating dinner with her tommorow i just messaged her back this, does it sound too bitchy? I wanted to be honest but not agressive or hurt her feelings:
Hey you- That’s fine no worries. I actually have class tomorrow morning and work afterwards, thus I will most likely be too tired to come by for dinner. You’re parents must be really relaxed if they are not upset for you canceling over Sean’s computer or hopefully you did not tell them that is the reason as I am sure they miss the hell out of you since you’ve been away at school. Not trying to be a drag…you just know how much I love my mommy and how she always put me first so I put her first.
I had a crazy night tonight working the carl straus beer promo oh my freaking god gorgeous men..so many and so few women I was able to be the pickiest bitch in the world, it was fun I was a good girl for the most part.
I may have time for lunch or breakfast on Saturday if not then I’ll just have to wait to see you until you’re here in feb.
See ya later ktshinizzle

 

the last option freaking brainless brainless brainless seriously ive taken classes iwth her before and arghhhhhhhh

 

doesn't sound bitchy at all...and it should have... I know I would have been bitchy

 

oh yeah, and lyns, check your myspace messages

 

I've NEVER blown my girlfriends off or my family off for a boy. I just don't understand it.

 

i shall be checking shall be checking now

 

me either. It's truly bizarre behaviour. I mean... if I see them lots, I might say "oh, I made plans with blahblah, would you like to come along for the dinner/movie before hand? Or can we try again in a couple days to see each other?" but, not if I haven't seen them in ages, or if it's just to hang out doing nothing (ie not fucking), or if my friend actually needs my help for something (like holding my fucking hand in the hospital so I don't cry infront of people looking at me like I'm a goddamn freak)

 

I just can't understand showing loyalty to a girl that obviously has no respect for you, if she's flirting with your men, not respecting dates and plans you make together....I personally wouldn't give her the time of day after she pulled that with me once...I like my time more than that

 

thats fucked of your firend. you and me should be friends and ill hook your friend up with Katie and then we can have a healthy friendship and none of this bullshit ah fucking man. I;m so glad I cancelled going to vegas with her next month so freaking glad.

 

ergh yeah it's just fucking hard because we've been friends since i was 13 and she's a little fucked in the head and has really low self-esteem. I feel really bad for her and want to help her i just don't know how. the way she lives and how little she thinks of herself breaks my heart.

 

Yeah, I had a friend like that as well....

But after a while I started to see that she kinda thrived on that, you know? She thrived on others building her up, guys kissing her ass and flirting with her, stealing men, all of it...

Sometimes, it's just a sick game.

 

see the sad thing is that every man she's been with has dumped her because she acts so desperate and I want to shake her and tell her the key to keeping a guy is to not need one. but her dad was REALLY overbearing. She was always at my house. I spent the night at her house once and he started yelling at her IN FRONT OF ME for some stupid thing like she didn't unloaad the dishwasher...just weird thats prob why she's with shitty guys

 

You don't seem like a supportive friend in anyway. You are suppose to take your friends for the good and the bad and here you are talking shit about your friend. You seem to be in the wrong more then your "friend".