i'm doing something rong, and its all because my bf broke up with me

ever since my bf broke up with me, i've been very depressed. i havent been my self in any way. i actualy started cutting. <_<>_> i know... i shouldn't be doing that, expeshaly to get over a boy. but i cant help it. i dont know what to do. my guy friends arn't really helping, there makeing it worse. and my girl friends are just egnoring me on the subject. i'm so confuzzled on what to do.

 

Which one of those 5 in your sig pic is your boyfriend?

 

The girl on the far right looks a lot like me when I was in middle school.

Anyway, back on topic, there's probably nothing "wrong" with you, people are just going through a lot of changes around that age and fickleness is pretty much to be expected. How long were you together? Why are you cutting? You say you can't help it but keep in mind that only YOU create your own reality.

 

You'll look back someday and realize that guy was a total asshole and you learn from these things. I went through a lot of shit with a boy when I was 14 (till I was 16) and even though I was weak then and submissive to him I became really strong from it and I learned so much. Just hang in there... Express yourself with art and writing or something and hang out with the friends that aren't ignoring you or being jerks.

 

talk to your school counsellor, see if they have a free therapist you can talk to, or a lowcost one (which your parents may have to pay for, but stil) professional help can really be helfpul to some

 

You should stop being emo first. Cutting yourself is just you showing that you can't handle dealing with yourself with no man for support. It's weak.
Talk to someone that WILL listen. Talk to your parents. I'm sure they care no matter how much you want to tell yourself they don't. Talk to a guidance counselor. Talk to a teacher.

 

the girl on the far right is me. and your probibly right. we where together for about a year in a half. it suckes that he broke up with me. but i guess the cutting thing i brought onto my self.

 

hes the one in green that looks like link from zelda

 

i'm home schooled so that wont do much good.

 

well then talk to you rparents, say that the break up really shook you and you would really like to talk toa counsellor, to someone safea nd confidential and trained in counselling

 

Seriously, talk to a parent. Tell them how this breakup has made you feel, and that you feel a bit of outside nonbiased counseling will help to see you through. Serious relationships at such a young age WILL be rough on you. And keeping yourself isolated with your pain is no way to see yourself through. *hug* Talk to a parent.

 

Talk to your parents before you cut yourself again and accidentally slice a major blood vessel.

 

So then which one is you?

 

she already said it....