I'm courting someone younger, sixteen, and am at a small fork

and the wall just keeps standing there....

Do any of you people EVER fucking read?

 

Yeah, we read what you are saying


Its just that ...... you sure you are going to be able to tell the difference between real disinterest, just wanting to get daddy mad, or hiding that interest because she thinks you are going to disapprove?

 

I don't think you added enough caveats in your initial response.

"...the first 20 year old who tries to start something with my 16 year old daughter, will not live to see 21."

Perhaps explaining what "start something" meant would have been a good idea.
To me it meant: ask out, have an interest in.
As if it was ok for your 16 year old to be interested and persue a 20 year old but not the other way around.
Can you not see how it might have been misinterpreted?

But I did say: "Fair enough"

Just sayin'

 

Have I directed any of my responses since then at you?

Just askin'

 

Is this a polite way of telling me to go fuck myself?
I'm reading your responses and responding.
People butt in.
This is not bizarre forum behaviour.

 

Do I seem to be shy about telling people to go fuck themselves?

It was my way of pointing out that you pointing out that you had said "fair enough" was redundant as I hadn't said anything to you about the issue afterwards...

 

To your intellectual superiors, yes.
Ok, no, but I do feel you prefer the snide remark over the direct personal attack. You're so, like, 17th century, dude.

Fair enough.

 

Or perhaps... just perhaps... what you think merits a direct personal attack, I think is only worthy of a snide remark.

 

I do not understand what you are saying.

 

I'm shocked

 

Now that was a direct personal attack.

 

more people would watch you get beat up than

watch you date a 16 year old kid


specially when 5 weeks ago she was a 15 year old KID

give your head a shake before her dad does.....

i guarantee he already knows and is watching you like a fuckin hawk

also...if you take a pic of her topless it is ''kiddie porn'' in many countries

 

No man... that was a sarcastic crack....

*the following is for educational purposes only...

Of course you don't understand...

Which makes me wonder why you think I wouldn't have told you off?

see the difference?

 

is it a personal attack if you say
''you remind me of the stupidest **** i have ever met''

 

LOL, wouldn't that depend on whether or not you liked stupid cunts?

It 'could' be a compliment... lol

 

I know, hence

I do get what you meant now, rereading it. I was just a little tired.

 

ahh my question is not necessarily whether I should date her or not, but how I should proceed. Though as I said I'll like input because I'm embarrassed to ask my friends, but I'll probable go with asking for her email because I'm going to be gone for a bit and seeing how it goes online and how she feels in person and then maybe ask her out.

only one aggressive comment (directed at me) I've seen so far at me that's important because I honestly want to get a good sense of how heinous something that I think if it doesn't become sexual isn't very naughty.

 

Why don't you specify what you mean by "proceed"? If it's not necessarily a question of "to date or not to date", then what is it? "To ask out or not ask out", "to flirt with or not to flirt with"? Or maybe it's not a "to _ or not to _" question at all.

 

sorry i wasn't clear the fork was whether to ask her out or just ask to write her (like through email). I was hesitant because I though it might sound to formal or weird (though she's quite weird) asking to write her. So I was thinking of just asking her out but her age makes me want to be slow and see if it is more than just a flare. But I think at this point I've thought about it too much and just need to relax and play it by ear.