I'm a male, looking for some friendly advice

Me and this girl dated for a little over a year and a half, and i really grew close to her,
I did everything i could to make her happy
in the end, i found out that she had been cheeting on me for 3 months, with my best friend (she told me this after breaking up with me)

but i care about her soo much, that i am completly wiling to look past this, and take her back

i dont know how to get her though
she shows almost no interest

is there anything i can do?
or is it a lost cause..

 

Do yourself a favor and forget her and your "friend".

 

Seconded. It's definately a lost cause, and one not worth pursuing even if it wasn't.

 

Yeah...move on. you have pride, dont you ?

 

word, she is not worth it. From my own experience, a cheater is ALWAYS a cheater. I went back with an xb/f after he cheated on me and the second time around the cheating got worse.

 

Sadly, I agree with the others. Man or woman, going back to a cheater is setting yourself up to be trampled over.

 

Agreed. You'd be putting yourself in a very vulnerable place. Move on.

 

Grab some self-esteem and kick both of them to the curb.

 

I agree with all the people that posted above.

 

well.. umkm i cant say i agree 100% but 90% i mean she was cheatting with your best freind for 3 months.. thats very lw & you want her back?
she shows no interest & you want to get her interested? aint gonna happen...
but i do disagree with the once a cheatter always a cheatter remark, there are too many reasons why some1 might cheat, & there are reasons why even a chronic cheatter may change theyre ways
you cant simply say cause some1 made a mistake once that they'll do it over & over...or even if they had cheatted over & over thats a pattern in theyre life that they may struggle with & try to overcome & the right support could do the trick..

i just hadta say that cause i dont think that if some1 makes a mistake & cheats they should be branded as worthless for life

but in the OP's case, i doubt you have much hope of getting this girl back...& even if your able to, building trust & a healthy relationship would be very difficult but not impossible

 

This girl cannot make you happy.

 

A cheater is not ALWAYS a cheater.

I just recently got cheated on by my boyfriend of one year... and we have since broken up. It's really fucking hard, but. I'm strong and I will get over it.

Even saying this, a cheater is not ALWAYS a cheater.

People make mistakes in life, people get too drunk, people make mistakes. All you can do is LEARN FROM THEM.,