And learning to be proud of it too. My wife recently left me and divorced me and this was the catalyst for me to finally accept what I am. It did'nt help that she stole a lot of my stuff and sold it on eBay - I am still trying to get back my collection of 12inch nazi dolls from the bitch.
the last cop i talked to was a dick, he asked me for my social secuirty number and i asked him why he said "Dont ask fucking question, just give me the fucking card!"
Well, I didn't hear this guy asking anybody anything so why not give him some space to say whats going on for him.
For me my acceptance was sparked by several bad relationships with women,so you're not alone there. And I think cops only freak people out if they're doing something against the law,so don't worry. This is a good place to be. I've often been told to be proud of who I am. This has been difficult for me but it's getting better. It's still the best advice. Hang around, It gets better,... Joe,
Well done for being proud of who you are even thow you broke up with you wife beceuse of it - move on and live your life.
Glad to hear you've worked yourself out. Sorry that you had to go through a marriage first though. And there's something about a gay cop that's kinda hot actually. I really don't know why though...
why should he change careers over realizing he's one of us? just because your gay you shouldnt drop everything and run to beauty college. The last man I could call my man was a cop, that made shit soooooo wierd, he was cool though, didnt mind me stepping out back to puff a jay every so often, god he was such an alcoholic allways down to jungle juice whatever was available. he was a prick but a refreshing prick, very into the traditional date scene. Only man I have ever been with that would take me iceskating.