I'm a dirty rotten cheater

I am 29, have been with my husband for 5 years. We both travel for work. I'm an exotic dancer, and have always kept my job strictly professional, been faithful to my husband. We have a history of abuse and alcoholism in our relationship, and have been on a rocky path for quite sometime... Anyhow, I have been having a serious affair with a guy I met at the club, and I will be staying at his house instead of the motel my next trip up there. We text all day and it has been the greatest sex ever. I still love my husband but I fear it may not be enough to keep me away from this other guy... ANY ADVICE:toilet:

 

You can do better.

 

If your marriage isn't worth treating like a marriage then you shouldn't be in it. Just my opinion. Good luck.

 

Sounds to me like he likes being a sucker and you like being sucked up to. Why change anything?

 

Your husbands a violent alcoholic and you're asking why you should not cheat on him?

That's nuts. Cheat on him. Call me up while you're at it.

 

Reminds me of something you'd see on Cops...

Stripper wife, alcohol, abuse, trailer park?

Stripper begins giving a little more than lapdances in the back room...

Stripper chopped into little pieces, stored in freezer for 50 years.

 

It might be dangerous if he finds out... be careful

If he's abusing you then theirs nothing wrong with leaving him..

 

Stripper eaten with rice by poor college student who thought it was chicken.

 

how much for choice cut? i'm poor as fuck

 

Cheating is never cool. If you can't be monogamous try open marriage. If you can't have an open marriage, end the thing.

 

everyone jumping to conclusions here... for all we know she's the abusive alcoholic and the husband's an angel.

 

Kinda sounds like that to me.

Abusive unfaithful alcoholic stripper running around texting other guys all the time.

I hope the poor husband leaves before it's too late and this hoe swallows his best years, but doesn't swallow anything else for him....

 

omg RooRshack

ya'll also jumping to conclusion also. Maybe they both abuse each other (verbally & physically)

 

Maybe the OP isn't really a lady at all, but Cthulu.

 

:iagree:
"Sometimes if you love someone so much, then you have to let them go" - and for the sake of both (three?) of you - move on

 

If you're going to do a thing, do it right.

 

They haven't made a man bad enough to deserve to be lied to and cheated on.

 

Haha thanks for the good laughs, makes my shitty situation a little easier to deal with... Except I don't live in a trailer park, I have a nice ass house... I'm a $tripper remember! A successful one LOL As far as the domestic issues we have, he isn't fully to blame, I'm not a battered wife or anything due to the fact that I have had violent episodes to him also...:boxing_smiley: It hasn't happened in a long time and he sincerely is trying to control the drinking. I can't help how attracted I am to this other guy, but in the best interest of my marriage, I think I will go enjoy this trip for all it's worth and then end my little slut fest. I just wish my husband would fuck someone else so I didn't have to feel so bad :2thumbsup:

 

You may not be able to control the attraction, but we all are 100% accountable for our behavior. If you don't like your husband, leave him. If you want an open relationship, be honest. If you want to lie, lie, but there's going to be a day your feet are held to the fire. The fact he has a history of substance abuse and has harmed you before makes me think you'd be a little smarter.

 

*sings* his head, was fouuuuuund in a drivin'wheel, but his body never was founnnnnd.....