Hello guys I'm new to this and I couldn't find another site so I'm glad I found somewhere. Around 3 years ago I met a guy who's always treated me with respect and loved me and we're still together. Christmas 2014 we both had sex for the first time and I knew at the time he had wild sexual fantasies and I was cool with that I listened to his fantasies and I have always respected that. For Christmas I bought a white PVC nurse outfit with the high heel boots and the gloves and we fucked, Liam has always respected me and I love him, recently (2-3 weeks ago) I went to Edinburgh with my Mum for a couple of hours and when I got back I seen he cummed all over my nurse outfit and wiped it with water and put it away and didn't think I'd ever notice, we were discussing looking for another woman online and meeting for a threesome and he's like no no I don't want to lose you if we have another woman for a session I want you don't want anyone else and yet he watches pornsites of threesomes and latex and pissing etc I'm confused as too if he really loves me and if I'm being a good girlfriend in letting him have his fantasies
His porn habits have nothing to do with you, stop being so insecure. Porn, for most men, is simply an outlet for their curiosity, and a masturbation aid. What he watches is not necessarily something he wants to try, he could just wonder what all the fuss is about, or because it is taboo. Keep on having fun, and enjoying exploring your sexual fantasies together. Stop equating his porn watching with "if he really loves me". They aren't even remotely connected. You are only setting yourself up to feel hurt, and insecure, and it's on you. The only exception would be is if all he did was watch porn, and didn't want to have sex with you. Then, it might be an issue. As for him cumming on your naughty nurse outfit, a polite suggestion on how to correctly clean it might be in order. Nothing too strange about it though. I really don't care what my husband (of 18 years) watches for porn. Never really have. It is SO pointless, and I am confident in my ability to please him, and myself.
Hello thanks for your message He doesn't watch it all the time I'm not fussed if he's wanking at porn we and the fantasies I know he would like to try and I'm ok with them I don't have a problem with them I've told Liam I wouldn't mind doing them with him. As for the spunking over my outfit it's not a big issue it's not annoying or anything I've got the stuff to clean it anyway but the only thing that is kinda worrying me is if I'm being to soft and if the normal kinda girlfriend would do it for their partner like would you have a sex party with multiple other people if he expressed he wanted to do so? In the 3 years I've known him he's always treated me with respect but I'm kinda paranoid because my ex was sex daft wanted it every morning every night and didn't respect me but Liam respects me loads and I'm thinking if I go along with the multiple women in bed he'd be attached to then he also said if I let him have me and numerous women in bed at same time he'd do the same for me and let me have guys in bed which I am not keen on having 2+ guys ride me
Lolz, I think you missed the whole point of this thread. Not, not have 2+ guys get all clumsy,but.....
What is "normal" for one couple may be considered extreme, or boring, to others. It all depends on the couple. Your relationship, and sex life, is between you and your partner. You define your own normal within your relationship. If you aren't comfortable with multiple men, but excited to share women with him, then try it. If you aren't, then don't. What I, or anyone else would do, is irrelevant to your relationship. Pushing the limits of your comfort zone (which can be flexible, and change over time) can be fun, so long as you have at least a vague idea what your hard limits (things you will absolutely not do) are, and feel confident in your own ability to not engage in sexual acts that you aren't into, just to please your partner. Honest communication tends to be a requirement for a healthy and diverse sex life.
I'm not fussed either way if I'm honest I was wondering if his fantasies were normal and if any other woman/man has had their partner asking or talking about them and stuff, Liam and I have good sex when we fuck I don't mind his fantasies as I said I was wondering if other men/women have had their partners want to do it, Liam and I have tried numerous things seuxally some I liked some he liked some we both liked some we both hated there's a few things he likes every time we fuck things I like every time we fuck but the threesome/gangbang/orgy/sex parties are they normal or unusual?
