If your wife suggested it, would you try Bi? That's what I did. She believed a Bi option wouldn't be a bad idea. She was right. Most guys would have no problem if their wife wanted to do it with another woman. My wife wasn't threatened by the idea, but quite turned on by it. If you were slightly curious, would you go for it, with her encouragement?
Of course I would. I was already orally bisexual when I met my present wife eight years ago. She thought it was sexy that her man sucked cock and we've shared our man's cock together hundreds of times. She'd also been playing with my "bung" while giving oral. Started with her fingers, then a slim vibrator, than a dong, a bigger dong, then bought a strap-on to do me like a man at her request which I agreed to knowing it would please her. Then she suggested I let our man fuck me in the ass with his big cock...He agreed, she was overly pleased as was I and he gives me a good pounding about once a month in her presence along with her participation. She wanted to witness me loosing my anal cherry, I agreed and she did. It turns her on to no end seeing me taking his cock deep up my ass. Seeing me backing into him to force him deeper with each thrust. It was a "win-win" because we both get pleasured from my acceptance to a good anal fucking.
My wife and I used to do this very often. We have had 24 guys that she shared me with over the last few years. I loved every one. Lately, we have just kept to ourselves, with her using various dildos with her strapon. I love letting her do anything she wants.....but I have to admit I miss the feel of a real cock. There is no substitute for the feeling of a cock cumming in my ass and/or mouth. Consider yourself lucky to have a significant other that wants to do this stuff with you.
If my wife asked me to suck a cock for her I would be shocked as hell at first because it would come out of nowhere. She doesn't even like seeing men kissing and doesn't know I suck cock now, but I would immediately come out to her and start inviting friends over.
It started as a suggestion, at first. She knew I wanted and could use a good blowjob, but she couldn't do it for me, so she suggested letting our gay friend give me a bj. Long story short: He gave me a bj, first time. Second time she watched, then she coerced me to do it to him. I did it without hesitation and shocked them both , at my enthusiasm. Hey, if your going to do it, then do a good job. As it turns out, it was a great suggestion. I think I enjoyed doing it more, with her encouragment. I know that she enjoyed watching.
I would love it if she suggested it! My feelings for her and our relationship are the reasons that I have not already dabbled with men. I continue to drop hints though, like “that sure looks like fun when you do “that”. I’d like to try doing that with a guy.” Too direct you think?
Be careful with your hints. Let her be the one to suggest it. My wife watched our gay friend and his old partner give each other bjs and thought it was one of the hottest things . After that, she was the one who always brought up the topic of seeing me suck a cock. She started off by asking me to suck her strapon.She thought that was hot and even hotter when I would cum in my own mouth or she would feed it to me. She called me a natural because I could deep throat her strapon without gagging and could easily take it in my ass. The outrageous orgasms prevented me from discouraging her , in any way. It finally came down to having him suck me and then me sucking him. As long as she could watch me, she was all for it. If she was all for it, then so was I.
My wife thought watching me suck cock was exciting enough until she watched us fuck each other. When his cock slid deep into my ass, her eyes couldn't believe what she was seeing. She said that watching me sucking cock and getting fucked in the ass was Intoxicating.. It actually wipes her out.
I know what your saying, my wife's pussy gets soaking, dripping wet watching me suck cock and take his cock up my ass. She's like right up against us, caressing an ass cheek, licking a nipple, caressing an inner thigh, talking the entire time how aroused she is getting. My wife doesn't receive anal but get's just as much pleasure watching me being fucked in the ass and then wants him and I to fuck her from both ends afterwards.
I actually helped make my second wife into a great cocksucker and she loves it now. She can be very submissive and therefore will give in to strong men. but this gives her anther option. competition too.
Tom and I have seen great improvement in his wife's cock sucking skills having watched him and I suck each other off weekly. She's not just watched us suck each other, she's seen how much we enjoy doing it, how we worship the cock, we completely and totally focused and into what we are doing. She's been able to embrace our enthusiasm in her own way which has enhanced her cock sucking skills greatly. She's helped me become better at eating pussy too...She get's my wife off orally much quicker than I ever could so I watched her at work and saw some things she was doing that I too adopted and it's helped my skills.
My wife used the strapon, not to do me like a man, but to give me the most intense orgasms. She never connected it towards anything gay or bi until that situation presented itself. Then she had me suck it , to see if I would be good at it. As it turns out, she thought it was a major turn on and she couldn't wait to see me do it for real. That opportunity presented itself and she loved it. I was more scared about doing it at first, until I turned out to be a major turn on for all.