This question came up in public and people were dumb to give a reasonable answer, so I have decided to post the question on here again. If You Are Asked To Write A Book About SEX What Will Be the First Thing That Will Come Your Mind to Write About It ? Also; What are the questions you would like to ask about SEX ?
Dumb how? What was dumb aboit their responses? Who's the publishing company, why are they asking me to write a book, how much will I get paid, what are the sales projections and is there any indication of a screenplay in the works which would guarantee royalties. How about syndication. Also how flexible is my publisher. What's to ask.
That there are four distinct types of sex. three ethical, one extremely questionable 1) Hedonistic sex - sex for your own gratification 2) Sex as an expression of love, partnering, bonding 3) Sex purely for breeding. One could certainly argue the ethics of each. 4) Sex as expression of power, or lack thereof. How ethical is that?
Why is sex in all caps? That'd be my first question. Silk, do you mean that power exchange relationships are questionably ethical, or are you referring to using sex as an instrument of oppression by the powerful?
I'd decline. I know very little about it to entertain people the whole length of a book. Questions about sex... hum... asking them on an Internet forum is just good for a laugh. The ones who have real answers don't lose their time on an Internet forum. They're out there, living in the real world.
But the Internet has become a part of our real world, it used to be TV for me and going out to bars with friends and working out of the house, now I hardly watch tv anymore because it's become a pile of crap in a box except for a few shows, or movies and have grown to hate the bar scene unless it's about going with my partner now and then so I do have time for Internet play within my real life. I am not a reader of novels but I study the human body and how it works with food and other aspects of life and so forums is like taking a break from all of that and my actual work. What I can say is even tho forum stuff is like playing around, I learn lots from it as I do from informational sites,,, even this forum is packed with threads where people share loads of their knowledge.
Because the OP was a troll looking to emphasize the topic they wanted posters to blindly discuss in order to entertain his sexual proclivities instead of discussing about writing. Hence my first post and the disappearance of the OP.
First thing that came to my mind is "how much am I getting paid?" Let's talk money first ..and publicity. Good stuff isn't for free or cheap. Show me the money. Why were people 'dumb' for answering a question? Oh, maybe you are trying to get people to answer so you can take their answers and write your own book.
When writing about sex, I think you need to set the stage that sex is for mutual pleasure and that one technique doesn't work for everyone. There should be a section about pleasing women and another for men. A discussion of "normal" sex vs taboo. Finally, the consequences of sex- pregnancy, STDs. Though hubby was experienced and I was not, I had to teach him how to please me. He may as well have been a virgin.
