with them what would you say to them during your first conversation, knowing that somewhere down the road you will most likely hook up. Go straight to the point, don't sugar coat it. Say what's on your mind. The first thing I would say and I usually have it on my mind when I meet someone new would be, "would you mind if I smelled your pussy right thru your pants and feel it's warmth on my face"? I am really interested in what girls would say about another girl or a guy.