If you are now in a relationship did you.....

before you made it somewhat permanent, did you or your partner discuss the fact that you are bi sexual and had sexual experiences with he same sex? I ask this because so many people here seem to be afraid to let their partner know when they are already established.

In our first of many intimate conversations, I think it was on on second or third visit to her house she told me she use to be a call girl in a Vegas motel and also had wonderful girl on girl experiences. I told her I sucked a man's dick every week for about for years for money when i was mush younger. This was not a rpulsive conversation nor a deal breaker. It actually was a hot conversation that gave me a hard on and made her very wet. We revealed these secrets to each other as we were discussing them. This actually led to a naked romp on her rug in front of her burning fire place.

 

We discussed sexual preferences and experiences but nothing relating to sex with same gendered people. She did tell me years later when a close friend of ours left her husband for another woman that if it weren't for me she might be tempted to find a woman to be with. That's as close to that type of conversation as we had.

 

We discussed what was on the table at the time, meaning my kinks and thoughts came after the fact. I now have more of an open mind than I ever did while hers is about the same, this poses some issues for me.

 

My gf and I split up for almost 3 years when we started seeing each other again she asked me about my past lovers

During the conversation she said she has had sex with other girls and that she really likes it

I was a lil surprised for a few moments

This admittedly was a real turn on for me and has opened a few doors for us.

 

To an extent yes.
My wife had 3 lesbian encounters in her life. One was with a college roomy who was gay and eventually seduced her - she says she didn't like this one "awkward".
Second one was also in college with a friend of hers, they went out dancing...had a few drinks went back to the girls apartment..talked about boys/sex and ended up having sex. This one she said she liked, and would do again. Third was much later, after her marriage of 8 years ended with her first husband, she had no relations male or female for 2 years. She found a guy, they had been dating for about 6 months when he wanted a threesome. She did it. That relationship ended soon after, but she had sex again with the woman. That was about 15 years ago.
Me... I had a jerk buddy when I was young, and that is it.
We talked about all of it fairly early in the relationship.