at this point i guess i would consider myself bi... i dont really know though... i cant fantasize about guys, only girls. but ive hooked up with guys and enjoyed it and been able to reach an orgasm pretty easily. i know i'd be much happier with a girl and i know that being in a relationship with a guy would probably end badly (although my friends want to hook me up with this guy im really friendly with, which im really nervous about for this reason) just cause i'd probably get bored with sex pretty quickly if im not actually attracted to the guy. i kinda feel like the only reason i hook up with guys anyway is because ive never even come anywhere close to getting with a girl, so ive kinda given up... i want to be happy though, and i dont know if i can be happy being someone im not. just wanted to get that out, feel free to comment/question/give me some advice, whatever.
well the thing is, if i decide to stick to girls only, unless things really change im not going to have much of a sex life, and if i let myself get with guys then at least its something... its not that im totally not into it if im with a guy, i just have to have some kind of emotional connection... like i cant just hook up with some rando, it has to be someone that i know to some degree, even if that means knowing them for a few days or something.
You don't have to stick mainly to one gender, just go out and if you meet a guy or girl and you like them, stick with them?
