Ideas for my boyfriend to sexually humilate me?

Discussion in 'Real Kinky' started by kittie, Aug 11, 2013.

  1. kittie

    kittie Member

    I'm a girl, and I'd really love for my boyfriend to humiliate me, sexually.
    But, again, when you Google that, usually it's dom/subs, where the man is the sub, and that obviously doesn't work for me :p

    My boyfriend is extremely dominant, and I love filling his head with ideas, but it's so hard to come up with anything...

    Any ideas?
  2. Willy Blue

    Willy Blue Senior Member

    Loads, you will have to excuse me though, I need to masturbate.
  3. kittie

    kittie Member


    Ideas. This is frustrating me, I'm usually very creative.
  4. Willy Blue

    Willy Blue Senior Member

    Ok, finished masturbating, what was it you wanted to know? Oh yes, ideas.
    I think it depends on your boundaries really, what are you limits? Obviously being tied up etc. How about being naked tied up and blindfolded and not knowing who you were having sex with?
  5. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Staff Member Super Moderator

    Humiliation play has a wide range, from simple name calling, to purposefully making you do things outside your comfort level (but not a hard limit).
    It could be writing denigrating names on you in lip liner.

    If he's so domly, why isn't he coming up with this stuff?
  6. Willy Blue

    Willy Blue Senior Member

    Thats a very good point, well presented. If he is Dom then he must know what floats his boat.
  7. SunshineChild

    SunshineChild Mad Scientist

    ya doesn't sound very dom if he can't come up with anything. drumminmama nailed it. Why aren't you on a leash or something , for starters....
  8. Get him to have a beer and watch the footy whilst ignoring you whilst you are doing the ironing and laundry, then fall asleep and not fuck you.

    Seems to work for most couples
    Sands3t likes this.
  9. Ranger

    Ranger Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

    He could invite a few of his buds over to watch the game as you play hostess dressing or not as ordered. Serving himself and guests as he orders.....need :coffee: back soon.......
  10. kittie

    kittie Member

    I actually like all of these, but I've been put on a leash, I get spanked, tied up, and he has come up with things, but he keeps doing the same few things.
    Like, he's shoved my head in the toilet, and the above stuff; but I'm really digging the servant thing in ways, :p
  11. Willy Blue

    Willy Blue Senior Member

    Then I think Ranger has made a good suggetion, joking or not.
  12. Ranger

    Ranger Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

    Perhaps I should have been clearer, 'servicing the guests as requested'. Oh yeah, agree on a 'safe word'.
  13. Willy Blue

    Willy Blue Senior Member

    Exactly that Ranger :)
  14. If you have to come here for ideas, your guy doesn't do a good job humiliating you. I suggest you come over to my place and I show you humiliation.
  15. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Staff Member Super Moderator

    You forgot wanking in the basement while trolling sites.
  16. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Staff Member Super Moderator

    Also, what works for you? Do you like being ordered around, on any level?
    What would generate embarrassment but still wind your clock?

    But look up figging.
  17. Gongshaman

    Gongshaman Modus Lascivious

    Maybe he could dry hump you with a tickle-me elmo puppet
  18. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

    how about him tying you up,blindfolding you,leaving the room andcoming back later and breathing gently all over youre body, but you cannot do anything cause you cannot move
  19. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

    I guess I could share a few of my ideas but they all involve feces. The good thing is it will make you feel really humiliated.
  20. planb

    planb Member

    have him put a dog collar on you,that should get you're creativeness going

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