I want to watch my wife with another guy

I've really been fantasizing a lot about watching my wife fuck another guy. She very rarely wants to have sex with me. Can anyone give me some advice on how to make this happen. We've been married for 19 years, the last the I want is to piss her off and her leave me.

 

Sounds like she's already doing it.

 

This is the part I just dont get. The last thing you want is for your sexless wife to leave you. Why cos you are too afraid to do laundry by yourself?

Employ a few basic logical operations and there are only a few possible truths

There has never been any gas in the gas tank, and she was never going to be interested. Either thats true or it isnt.

If it isnt, then its been either by her own hand or others have been getting it the whole time, and you never did because you had to be controlled with sex.


So whats the REAL reason you want to see her with another guy. If she's never had any kind of libido, another guy isnt going to do anything and not going to happen.

Which concept is more likely to piss you off, that no matter how hard you try she was always going to be frigid and you were never going to get a healthy sex life with her, or she has been getting it elsewhere the whole time and you've just been played for 19 years.

Dump her and find one half her age with a pulse and daddy issues . The ones that are in that no libido first category are rare, most of them are in that second completely full of shit category.

But you already know this anyway, married for 19 years so you are both in your 40s. In her 40s she either instantly angry at every guy taller than you or she isnt

 

Ask her if she'd be willing.

 

What country are we need to meet with the same feeling?

 

You have to sit her down and talk to her honestly. If she doesn't listen or is not interested in your feelings, then I'd be looking for a good woman who can appreciate a man.