I want to try anal with my wife, how do I ask

I been married 12 years, never tried it, I want to try
how do I ask
best postion to start
another problem, as I am on a large size she has problems with normal sex.
But I want to try anal, I need all the help from the experts on this forum

 

This is a decent approach:

 

Get on all fours and have her shove a dildo in you ass and show her how much you enjoy it. Then ask her if you can do her next?

 

Tell her to drop down on all fours like dog that ur walking over to her ass with da rubber her ass in trouble

 

Don't ask. Sneak attack!

 

It's easy, dude. Withhold all gifts, jewelry, and other assets and make it clear that you will give them to you if she gives her ass to you. No anal sex means no goods.

 

Thanks
this is the best option from you, and a good one, I will try it out

 

You've been married for 12 years and don't know how to ask your wife a question like "honey what do you think about anal?" ?

 

LOL, tell her you're gonna dry smash her shit box and report back here with the results.

 

The trick is to put the idea into her head and get her thinking about it. Tristan Taormino has a website and some good books and videos. Just leave a web page up, or a book lying around, and bring it up one day when she is blind drunk. Cosmo says to have the woman squat on it so she can control the speed and depth of penetration, but that might be ok for hookers just trying to get the job done, but it is really hard for most women to relax as they are scared they will pee or worse. I have found that gentle penetration with the girl laying face down is most comfortable, as she can clench her butt and prevent deep thrusting. Later, doggie works once she is more relaxed with deep thrusting. Gays reportedly use the Missionary a lot, but I personally don't like it. Awkward.

Some women just will not even discuss it, and will get angry if the subject is even mentioned. I went out with a chick like that for 10 years, and the funny thing was once I started heading for the door that was all she wanted 24/7. Any time, any way was suddenly ok by her...but the relationship had been ruined by manipulation issues like that by then. That just made me really angry, as suddenly she was all over it, and cumming everywhere, and pestering me for anal sex constantly, whereas before she was indifferent and would withhold any sort of sex for months at a time until she got what she wanted.

A couple of chicks did it in the early stages of our relationships, but once they thought things were settling down, and I was getting committed the tap was suddenly turned off. Bad decision...

The big issue is not if she will do it, but rather what are you going to have to do with her if she doesn't. Anal has been a deal breaker for many people. Some women just won't do it. What are you going to do if she is like that?

 

My suggestion is only what worked for me, so I don't know how it will work for you. If you regularly eat her pussy and finger her (if not I'd work on that) just gradually add in anal stimulation over time while doing stuff that feels good to her pussy. This has the added benefit of working her up to it so she'll enjoy it, she may not know how to enjoy anal if you go straight to full anal sex. Once you've got her really wet with some eating/fingering start by gently circling your finger with some pressure at the bottom of her vagina, then near her anus, if she makes you stop then she's not ready, if she lets you you can gradually work up to slipping a wet finger just inside while continuing to pleasure her pussy. Once she's enjoying having her ass fingered while you eat or finger her pussy it won't be long before she asks you to try anal sex.

 

Hmm:- Holding her from behind, gently bend her over, slowly spreading her legs, move your hands to massage her pussy, then gradually with thumbs make your way to the butt hole - as the massage stimulates, try one thumb at a time, (ensuring the thumbs are lubricated) make an entry -
If this is done with care and meets no resistance then one could make the suggestion to 'go further' with drive and power
This will at least show your desire, and if mutually agreeable the speed and thrust will be erotic
(OMG - too Porno?)

 

"dick. bum. you dig?"

 

I would move down slowly --- give her incredible oral sex at the bottom of her pussy, start rimming her ass to get her to know how nice it feels, use your tongue there as well as your fingers ... this will put the idea in her mind and make her ass juicy and not tight ... make sure you are well lubed - her pussy dripping wet, her ass relaxed ... guide her hips off the bed so she is on her knees and enter slowly and once in go to toen on her as if you were having vaginal intercourse from behind ... have fun

 

Great advice!!:2thumbsup:

 

And don't forget the ultimatum that no anal sex will mean divorce.

 

The consensus seems to be that stimulating her anus while pleasuring her other ways will probably get her to want it. It's a good way to do it because it makes her want it and enjoy it instead of feeling like its a sacrifice to make you happy. If only there were a way to get a woman into giving oral sex like that. I mean once she does it you can respond really well, make sure you pleasure her in return so she enjoys the experience, but if she won't do it to start with there's not much to work towards it with the way you can work anal stimulation into pussy eating.

 

Getting anal takes some preparation unless you want a poop stick or stink finger. I would guess that is why she won't do it. You should take showers together and maybe enemas together also. There is no pleasure in an empty poop shoot so if she goes along it will be for your benefit only.

Thomas

 

ask nicely

 

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