I want real advice from people on here

from people that

know me enough in any way...

whether reading my posts for years.

whether talking to me.

knowing me in any way, etc.

i DONT want...
fucking insults and flames.

think i could get that here if i asked the question?

 

Darlin'...I don't know you at all, but i would answer you as honestly as I could.


I can't speak for these other jokers, though.

 

I will.. I think I've been cool with you

 

okay see....

i have problems and i want honest answers about something cause i think i just scared away someone that i was hoping would be a good friend...

and ive always had problems with people hating me and hurting me. whether it be, raping me, hitting me, gossping about me, saying their my friend and then ignoring me...

i dunno it just seems like

there is something about me that people dont like

and i guess i just wanna know what it is... without people insulting me.

 

Alright- I don't know you on an extremely personal level so it is hard to say. All I can base my findings?(dunno the word I mean) on is your post. You seem really sweet and everything but you have a tendency to flip on the drop of a hat. You say a lot that its "just the internet" and you won't take things seriously but a lot of times you do. You almost seem self conscious and constantly find a need to defend yourself. You just need to lighten up a little and truely believe that this is JUST THE INTERNET. You are really nice and everything and you are a good person who has been through a lot of shit. Have you gone to counseling? That might be a good idea with all the stuff you have been through. Just stay cool and don't take things personally on here. I know that is easier said than done. You really are awesome though! Big Hugs and I hope I haven't said anything mean (but if you haven't figured out- I'm blunt)

 

I have similar problems. It's not that people hate me...most people don't know how to take me. I've been told I have a rather "gruff" personality...and that it puts people off. I know for a fact that this is one of the reasons I have no close friends and can't make relationships work, romantic or otherwise.


You've been raped? I'm very sorry. I have no idea what that's like, so I can't really comment on that.

Now, I'm not saying the problem is you...(concerning relationships, not rape) but have you ever thougt about talking to your good friends about this? Or a shrink? I don't have the highest respect for shrinks, but they do help some people work these things out.

OK...before I type a damn book here, I'll stop. I hope this helped in some way.

 

And people are hitting you? WTF????


You need to disassociate yourself from these people, because that's not right.

 

hippylove.. i understand and respect what you said. and it's true.

thanks!

biggen, look for a pm....

 

rubs palms together impatiently for PM, lol

 

no problem sweety! if ya ever need to talk... my pm box is always open (couldn't really say door LOL)

 

I only wish I knew you well enough to help you out. Can we become friends for the sole purpose of giving you my opinion on you?

 

sure check for a pm

 

Hey sweetie, I haven't talked to you in awhile...... I feel so bad that you feel like this, we should talk!
I don't know why people would do those things to you, I've always really liked you and I always look forward to getting e-mails from you... you're a real cool chick stop worrying so much about what people think about you....
much love always!!
Hollie*
~big hugs!!~

 

thanks hollie. that means a lot.

*kisseys*

 

pm me sometime hun, we need to catch up!!

 

indeed

i will
btw,
is that you in your sig.?

if so (which i think it is)
you are so perfect!!!

 

ya, that's me.... thanks, you're so sweet!

 

ugh... i wish i looked like you.

i debate whether to get a nose job or not. i have a pointy big nose.

i would like to think it dont matter, but it does.

anyways...

haha, yer so cute

 

oh shut up!! you don't need to get a nose job... you know I wanted one at one time.. lol... stupid idea.... and it would be dumb if you did...

 

you DID????

wtf

dont play!!

*heart attack*