I want to meet a man like the ones here, the ones who love sharing their wives with other men. I want an open ltr, with a man who I can bond with and spend time with but who doesn't mind me fucking other men and women on the side and who I would allow to do the same. Is that realistic? Where can I meet such a man?
Sure, I know of several members on here who make that set up work. Maybe try swinger clubs or dating websites? I think it would be hard to meet that person in casual conversation, since a lot of people are reluctant to admit that type of information upfront. So go to a place where they can be open about it with little fear of backlash.
I think a swingers site would work. They're literally filled with single guys looking for that kind of thing. Dating site also if you write up a good profile and state exactly how you want. I have limited experience on swinging sites but I find you get much better results and compatibility results when you have an honest but interesting profile, it appears to weed out a lot of the miscreants. Long detailed sentences make it hard for the lazy guys to read and they won't bother. Go do it, nothing to lose. =]
It has been realistic thus far for me. We're completing 1 year in an open relationship together next week. Second longest-running relationship I've had.
Thanks gang. I signed up for Interracial Dating. I specified that I'm looking for an Open LTR and someone to accompany me to swinger parties. I spoke to one guy named Matt who gave me his number. But I haven't heard from him since. Weird. I hope they're not all as flaky as he was. I will look into swinger sites. Do you think people on swinger sites are looking for real relationships or just to play? Cherea, hey baby! Congratulations on your one year anniversary. Wow, can't believe it's been that long since you met your gf!:sunny:
Starting a relationship open right away can be really hard. I've never seen it last more than a year or two with other people. Me and my guy have been together for 10 years, and have been non-stop monogamous for only 6 months. Most times (most, not all), it helps to have a strong foundation together first, IMO.
Did you PM me? If so, I didn't get it. I cleaned out my inbox though so you should be able to send one. Did you relationship start out as open, or did it open up later on?
Our relationship was open, and she knew I was bi from the word go. Check your inbox on Facebook. Kiss =)
I totally agree with her. Without a foundation there is a chance you might just be a play thing for someone. The Samantha one way to approach this would be to start dating normally but early on in the peice make him aware you want an open relationship and slowly work towards it. This might take a lot longer but are more likely to end up with the right partner.
