i wanna have sex for the second time. but how should i let her know?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by american_gstar, Jun 2, 2006.

  1. Hi,

    if you read my other post before, you can read i've had sex for the first time. it was on a tuesday. But now this saturday & sunday she's coming again, i'm assuming we'l go watch some tv (just like last time) in my room. I already know now when i sit next to her, i will be in the mood lol, so i wonder.

    1 ) should i just ask ''are you in for it'' ?

    2) or touch her a bit and ectera and observe her non-communicative responses. (to see if she likes it or dislikes.)

    Also i wonder if they are perhaps to fast following? mean tuesday and then saturday

    plus, what happens if you take viagra? should i perhaps take it? last time sex didnt go perfect coz my gun gave up to quick on me ;]
  2. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

    Just take your dick out and see what she does with it.
  3. lol u sure that work? .. i hate my dam hormones.. i wish i be'd born intersexual
  4. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

    Don't know, I've never had sex or a date, but it might.
  5. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    I would just try to make a romantic place around, I would be nice to her... and when you'll feel THIS is THE time, I would try to touch her or kiss her ...

    to that viagra: I would better try your second time in a natural way..
  6. k i gues ur right Jana, just gotta make it a bit romantic ect.. and if the seeing the situation, makes it possible.. i could try..
  7. TheMechanic

    TheMechanic The chicken LUVER!

    1) Do NOT ask her, most women like a secure self-confident man...
    Kiss her do whatever she accepts willingly, you will be able to tell what she wants by her non-verbal communication...

    2) Exactly... make sure you don't go grabbing for the chest, alot of kissing, gentle touchng on the inside of the forearms, neck and ear kissing and nibling and rubbing of anything non-sexual... her back, neck arms, etc...

    HELL NO do not take viagra, it is normal when you first "pop the cork" as it were, that you go off very easily... use a ton of oral foreplay if it gets there, and perhaps you should masturbate approx 30 mins - 1 hour PRIOR to her arrival, then you wont be walking around with a fully loaded weapon which is likely to discharge early...

  8. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

    Do you want romance or do you want sex? You've got a choice to make.
  9. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    look, how old are you? 17? Just like me .. so I guess I have more experiences with women-minds than you .. at least I AM a woman:H
  10. it doesnt discharge early, it doesnt do it at all, it took me 40 mins last time and nothing happend rofl
  11. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

    Don't pull out your dick!
    Keep calling her and treat her with affection. Make lots of eye contact and kiss her!
    If she wants to have sex she will be responsive.
  12. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

    Yea, but I'm the mack daddy, nome sayin'? You can't be romantic and sexual. To that one guy: Tell her to look over there, and when she looks back have your dick on the table. Put something on top of it and try to throw it in the air with your dick.
  13. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    you could only TRY to do this to me - I'd never ever want to see you again...
  14. ill just start with kissing and rub the chest to show her a fairly good indication..of what i actually want. doing that for a while ill watch her reponse and either dont ask (if she doesnt seems to be liking it) or do ask when (she joys it alot) doing so, or dont do both and just go all the way with touching.(showing the self confindence part).. perhaps try to get a better enviroment this time, light candles a few, i dunno.. anyway best way to do it is her under and me up right? just gotta try it again
  15. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

    Don't you like sex? I'm just saying how I've seen on comedy central and porn videos. All that boring romance shit would throw off my groove so bad...
  16. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

    And how the hell will you tell if she actually likes it?
  17. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    I do ... but not with a guy, who only cares about his dick and his orgasm ...
  18. ahh man i feel for one week so DAM strange, i cant focuss at school ect, im losing my mind all the time... i called her today and was very happy she wanted to date me saturday and sunday, today didnt work
  19. believe me.. i do enjoy romance.. but ''sex'' is an part of mine romance, i sometimes think i'm to sesentive lol, and wish it wouldnt be this way. (allthought not many know i am) i hide it ;)
  20. Maybe it's from the lack of sleep, but that's really funny.

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