I wanna have sex 'cause I can't keep it in any more, so let me…

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by catstevens, Sep 3, 2005.

  1. catstevens

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    Hi every one
    I wrote this thread because I read this real story:
    A 15 years old boy escaped with his girlfriend 16 who he became acquainted with her by the internet to marry her after the rejection from his mother, under the pretense that he is still too young and he has to continue his education & study. So he left his home with his girlfriend with their personal stuffs to marry and make their own family. The family hastened in looking for them, and the surprise was; the boy has been arrested for charge of stealing from a grocery, his mother (weeping) : my son has been arrested, his future has been lost, for a bag(sack) of bread and for his claimed wife, my son ( the internet addict ) tried to satisfy me to marry his girlfriend on the internet, I laughed at him and considered him was joking around, I asked him to complete his studying instead of this nonsense, he raged, and after two days I didn't see my son at home, he took some of his clothes and personal stuffs,…etc.

    Well, what I want to say that boys and girls in this age (teenage) know about sex and the like, so if they reached sexual maturity, and knew these stuffs we should be aware, what if they wanted to have sex? My opinion; I will ask him to wait or to be diverted by something (sport, reading ...etc) from these stuffs until he becomes elder. I will try to explain to him that marriage is a big responsibility, what if she became pregnant etc

    The most important point:
    What if he insisted to have sex, he can't keep it in?
    In this case I am not sure 100% but I will give him this idea which is better than fornication (stealing, become bad person, spiteful, lost etc)
    My idea is; OK marry her, and continue your education the both of you, keep living with your parents as she would do too, and you can visit and meet each other from time to time until you graduate and get job then move to your own house. What do you think? What is the wrong in marriage let him marry.

    Yours Sincerely,
    Cat Stevens
     

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