Socially, and I try too hard to be noticed by a group and to fit in when I'm new to it. It's strange that I should be realizing it now, years after I had renounced that behavior. Yet I've begun to notice it creeping up again in me. Writing this post and recognizing it is a huge step though. I am recommitting myself to just being again, and continuing not to fret over what others think of me. Ahh I feel better
It's easy to say that you are recommitted to being yourself around others, not as easy to do it. Trust me, I know.
You have to be defiant, you can make friends by creating an image for yourself. If you join a group you'll never be ahead of it, you have to start your own group. I would reccomend the fuck everyone approach. Not to be mislead, I'm not suggesting you become an asshole but I'm suggesting you tell anyone off that thinks less of you than themselves. Of course the first step is to pump up, you can't be a weakling and be defiant. You just can't, I'm not saying become the hulk but you DO need some muscle.
hahaha that sounds like a funny way to make freind..fuck you i'll beat your ass c'mon man wheels is a good person..he just needs to not try so hard..what you are tellin him is to try harder..be faker and beat up anyone who dont like the fake you.. hahaha good plan
What? When did I say be fake? I said be defiant, if you're thinking of doing something but think people will lash out at you, do it anyway. As far as the fuck everyone approuch, that's just life. Why do you think nice guys finish last? You have to be at least a bit of an asshole, we all have it inside of us, no point fighting it.
