like all my friends are always complaining about how fat & ugly they are when they are actually thin & pretty, and like i don't see why so many people have such low self esteem, most people are at least KIND OF pretty and if not then you're still gonna find someone out there who thinks youre attractive but for some reason it's "cool" or like idk what it is to have a low self esteem, i don't get it. i think i'm pretty, i mean sure there's a lot of things id change about myself if i could but i still like how i look, but if i said "i look really fuckin good today" or some shyt everyone would be like damn she's full of herself but then when smeone goes "damn i look like shit" or "im so fuckin ugly" no ones gonna be like ew you have a low self esteem everyone is just like OMG me too im so gross since when is it cool to hate yourself?!
good for you, Im used to think i was amazing turned out i am amazing Lol> but no seriously if your good with yourself other ppl will be too
im not sure about hating yourself but when i was a teen it was really cool to be depressed... any way it is bullshit and you're one of the smarter ones if you can already see through it... just continue having healthy self esteem... by the time you are an adult you will be far better off then your whiney friends!
^ yea the whole depressed thing. Blows leads to so many damn emos in the world Edit: If you emo i mean no offence
Whenever I get too self conscious (I'm a guy) I like to think of every human as purely a mass of flesh and bones I mean really thats all we are Our hair is dead skin cells for peats sake Anyways, ya I'm pretty fit but on the skinny side but the only thing that really bothers me is my nose lol Its gotten to a point where I couldn't maintain eye contact with someone for over 1/2 a second because I was afraid they'd point out how my nose is slightly deformed In all reality it is hardly noticeable I was born with a mass of like extra brain tissue in/above my nose and I got it removed (In fact I am currently the youngest person to have this operation in the US, I was like 8 months old) When I'd look at myself in the mirror I would see my nose and 'overfocus' on it and be extremely self conscious all day My friends said no one even notices and that other people have their own shit that they worry about Then I thought about it and like more than half the people I know have something that they are self conscious about that is limiting them from being as social as they could be
um... they like really bad music and they like being emo 'cause their mom won't let them go to a party etc
I think I'm pretty too, and I wish more people would think that they were pretty. So its a fantastic thing you do! A lot of girls have low self esteem so just be proud that you didn't let that get you down. Because so many girls are so pretty! I got over wondering if I was narcissistic or conceited, I love myself, I think I'm beautiful, and there's nothing wrong with that!