i think i might have had my first orgasm

And if i did i dont remember!

Im not sure. Its hard to explain. My boyfriend and i have been trying, well kinda trying for a long time. But i always got so nervous and scared so i would stop him and just let him get off. anyways, tonight i decided i wasnt gonna get scared and just let it happen, if it could.

So, we found the old vibrator. He fingered me as i rubbed my clit with the vibrator. Normally if it started to feel good i would stop. But tonight i didnt stop him. It started to feel really good. I mean really good. So i layed back and relaxed and enjoyed it. It was feeling like incredible and i was laying back and i dont know from there.

It kinda seems like i passed out or something. Cuz all of a sudden things were blurry and slowly i remember what was happening. So i had him stop and i stopped.

What do you guys think? I have no idea cuz obviously thats never happened. Gah help someone!

 

it sounds like you did have an orgasm, congratulations, try slowing things down a little next time you reach orgasm so that you can ride the waves of orgasm that are engulfing your body, then when you have had enough you can slow it down even more and bring yourself down gently, you might find this more satisfying than stopping suddenly - you`ll soon come to know how far is too far for you personally.

 

I spent a lot of time rubbing my girls clit tonight and she got light headed, and told me she couldn't see very well. She also told me to stop, this was her first time feeling that way.

I'd also like to know if she had an O, or if she was about to have one

 

when you have an orgasm you will know it.
your pussy gets really warm, your toes tingle, it feels like your breath is ripped from your lungs, and you feel this radiating pleasure course from the inside out. if things start looking blurry, you were probably about to orgasm. most women, at least me, cant focus enough to see anything blurred. I dont think you had an orgasm, you came awfully close, next time dont stop untill you feel a warm explosion and you feel your pussy tighten and throb. then, you will have had an orgasm, and you will know.

 

Did your vaginal barrel start to spasmodically contract ?

Did you feel it coming on - I think you get sweat above your upper lip and from what I know myself a womens body is very sweaty, the body does this because it expects friction over the vulva, hence the reason for the sweat.

A mild orgasm you will notice your vaginal barrel spasmodically contracts, that is a symptom of orgasm, all the women or girls I had that had an orgasm - that was the one thing that tells you that a women is having a true orgasm.

Usually a women will "hold on" like they are expecting something to happen, I have noticed subtle things like the sweat above the top lip, their heart rate is very fast around 200 beats per minute and the breathing ( not sure about the breathing) seems to be faster also.

I'm not sure ( this is what I have read ) but a women can feel a orgasm approaching and its may be quite frightening for a women to experience this, because in the back of their mind they may be fearful of "losing" control of their body, because that is what happens.

Imagine a women suddenly losing control of her body she starts to convulse ( how would you feel about your partner seeing you lose control of your body, just remember your partner is going to feel those keegal muscles grip his cock and that will send him into extasy like nothing he has felt before ) so just hold on and enjoy the ride.

I can write this tonight because I quite drunk - he he he

On of the things I do remember is the my ex girl friend just before she orgasmed ( mild orgasm ) she arched her spine just before her vaginal muscles started to convulse spasmodically.

 

WOW !!!

Now thats a great explanation of what orgasm is like, it gives me greater insight into what is happening.

Feel free to write in my thread.

 

haha what thread? and thanks.. lol