I have a boyfriend, for more than a year, and more and more I find that I think I might just like girls a lot more than I like guys. I know I definitely want to break up with this guy but the realization of my plausible homosexuality is quite something in the midst of all this.
Actually, it happens that way more than you think because most people, even if they know they have other feelings , will try the hetro relationship first, sometimes in a hope that the other feelings will go away , like a CURE almost. Tell him, gently, of course, then find your lady ....god luck !!!!
Well, I can understand your feelings. I was in an around eight-month-emotion desaster becaue I didn't know what was going on. I always thought it would be a decision for life. But now I think it changed. I'm really happie with my girl-friend. I love her so much. But I don't think that I will never be able to have such a relation-ship with a boy. So I hope for you that you find out the best way and that it doesn't take so much time...
I left my last boyfriend for MANY reasons, but certainly finally coming out with my sexuality and finding the woman of my dreams was the catalyst that made me finally have the guts to do it. I hadn't been happy for months- if ever- in the situation. I had given up. I wish you the best and I hope it works out I believe it will. It usually does!