I think I may have turned straight!

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Tamee, Jun 15, 2004.

  1. Tamee

    Tamee naked

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    I thought I was bisexual, but then I met and got drunk with and had sex with this girl last night, and I felt ok about it at the time, but this morning I felt like throwing up every time I thought about it.
     
  2. moon_flower

    moon_flower Banned

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    Do you think it may have been that you were disgusted with just that girl...or maybe with the idea of a one-night stand?
     
  3. Tamee

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    I dont know what it was, but now I'm kinda turned off by the whole idea.
     
  4. Defence_mechanism

    Defence_mechanism Member

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    dude dont judge your entire sexuality on one drunken night.

    im gay and i've gotten drunk and fooled around a girl and then felt like throwing up afterwards. ive also gotten drunk and fooled around with a guy and felt like throwing up afterwards.

    truth is, when im drunk (and i would imagine im not the only one) i feel like i want only one thing and i dont care who'll give it to me. however, when im sober theres no way i would act that way towards the people i had. and im actually quite embarressed about it.

    as someone said earlier, it's most probably just that one person.
     
  5. Tamee

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    eh, maybe. but now I just don't feel attracted to girls at all.
     
  6. monosphere

    monosphere Holly's Hubby

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    Give yourself a little time to process all of this. I've had bad experiences with girls in the past that has made me rather put off by them, but I'ev also had teh same experiences with guys. Those feelings don't last too long. Maybe a couple weeks or so. Just give yourself a little time to truly think things through in your head.


    On the other hand, you could very well find that you're just not interested in women anymore. You're young and are going through numerous changes. Tell me, is this the first time you've been with another girl? If so, it could be that your curiosity has been satisfied and you've come to the conclusion that girls are just not your cup of tea. There's nothing wrong with that. It happens. There are some bisexuals on here who have decided that they are flat out gay. Anyway, we love you no matter if you're gay, straight, bi, or asexual. Don't worry about it too much. Just allow your feelings to happen naturally and you'll be fine.

    Mono
     
  7. Bonky

    Bonky Member

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    ya know what? fuck it! you wanted to have fun at the time and you did and it's ok,forget everything else!
     
  8. Miss_Tambourine_Girl

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    Hangover?
    could it be?
     
  9. butterfly

    butterfly Member

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    Hey, doesn't matter, it's like the other thread, forget labels and take each person as they come (maybe it was just this girl that you didn't like, maybe not). And just coz you were attracted to women and labelled yourself bi at one point in your life does not mean you have to be attracted to women all your life! Things, and people, change!
     
  10. maryjaneguitargurl

    maryjaneguitargurl I am just like you.

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    Or maybe because you were drunk and had a hangover..hehe


    peace
    chickens
     
  11. Tamee

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    nah, I was sober by the time I fell asleep and felt fine the next morning.
     
  12. barefoot_boy

    barefoot_boy Member

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    If you liked it when you first had it,You'll probably like it in the future.lol
     
  13. Tamee

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    I don't even think I liked it when it was going on.
     
  14. psyche

    psyche fun for the whole family

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    hmm.. well, what made you think you were bisexual in the first place?
     
  15. Stalkz

    Stalkz Member

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    Just let the bi/gay/strait labels go and just go on what you're attracted to at that very time.

    I don't tell people I'm bisexual or gay or strait, but I've been attracted to guys and girls. It's a person to person thing not for me, not a male or female thing.

    If you're attracted to a girl some time in the future don't call it suddenly being bi again, just... attracted to someone new. Don't let someones sex determine whether you want to screw them/date them/live with them/marry them. Both sexes have their ups and downs.
     
  16. maryjaneguitargurl

    maryjaneguitargurl I am just like you.

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    haha hehe

    peace
    chickens
     
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