well, two weeks after breaking up with my ex, i was feeling low and sort of heartbroken...so i went out to this club and i met this guy. we just shared a nice vening at the club dancing and talking, nothing really out of the ordinary, i wasnt really into it and he could sense that I was feeling down. even though he kissed me and asked me for my phone number. the next day he sent me a few texts saying that if I needed someone to speak to he was there for me. anyway, i saw him again at the same club and we shared a bit more thank kissing, lets say i let him grope me up a bit and stuff, well, this time i was feeling much better so i just went with the flow. ok, to make this short, this guy told me he didnt want to lie to me anymore and he confessed he had a girlfriend, well actually its her fiancee and they lived together. I said it was alright i wasnt looking for anything, i just wanted to have fun. still i could see that he was feeling guilty and so was i but I didnt pay attention to that, due to the alcohol i consumed that night. anyway, he invited me to spend the night with him at a hotel and i declined...i really wasnt up for it to be honest. so after seeing him once again at the club, i hadnt heard from him in a few months. two weeks ago he contacted me again asking me out for a drink. i said i had exams so i couldnt go out for the next couple of weeks. the very same day of my last exam he sends me a text again asking me when i wanted to meet up for a drink. today i got a reality check. what the fuck is going on? I just told him i didnt think it was such a good idea to meet up cos i dont feel comfortable having to hide ( i dont really care to be honest )...the thing is I feel i can do better than him. It's like I dont need to get myself into this kind of situation cos i really dont need it. I was looking forward to having a shag, but something tells me to avoid this guy. he's alright, but I just found myself thinking that I dont need this you know, I believe in karma, i wouldnt like my boyfriend to meet up with a chick he met at some bar. still, i think i did the right thing. but i'm all alone and dead bored tonight. anyway, my conscience doesnt bother me. any thoughts?