I REALLY could use some help

Ok, I'm 15 and gay. And I dont know how to like "be gay." If you know what I mean. Like its hard to explane on line. Like what to shave, what to know. All the other gay guys I know like...know..stuff..its really hard to explane... >.<...well any like "gay pointers" would be good.

Thanks

 

Well, first of all:

You absolutely MUST wear this shirt
and absolutely MUST wear these shorts
If you wanna learn how to have gay sex, look at porn...I guess
And if all else fails try to act like Jack from Will and Grace as MUCH AS POSSIBLE!!!!



Look dude, don't try to look or act any particular way, or fit any standard, just live your life the way you would if you were straight, but have a gay sexual orientation.

 

I know what you mean. I didnt mean to sound like I wanted to be all different and stuff. I guess I just dont like the way I am now, I find myself to be boring...

 

Yea, we all have a tendancy to feel a little inadequate at times...but looking through your other posts you don't see like that boring of a person, in fact I highly doubt you are. Try not to beat yourself for being "boring", maybe your just an introvert? I know a good amount of people who, while they may not be constanty grabbing laughs and attention, are very interesting and fun people to know.

 

Make yourself interesting then. But you need to find yourself interesting. Relying on other people to tell you how to be cool will make you more boring than you can possibly imagine.


If you want more practical advice, look at this, and then avoid being like that at all costs:

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=28362024&MyToken=920ae939-54bd-4328-8540-d50c2d4c3871

 

Just be yourself, don't try to "be gay". That's so fucking lame...

 

there is no right way to be gay.....just be yourself.....if every gay person acted like every other gay person the world would be lamer than what it is now......if you want to 'act the gay way' then you would in a sence be selling out to the heteros because they want to be able to stereotype all of us into one category

 

Oh yes, let's blame the heteros for our terminal lack of imagination... Cmon, you think heteros write all those godawful gay magazines?