I REALLY could use some help

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by well_ok_then, Jun 10, 2006.

  1. well_ok_then

    well_ok_then Member

    Ok, I'm 15 and gay. And I dont know how to like "be gay." If you know what I mean. Like its hard to explane on line. Like what to shave, what to know. All the other gay guys I know like...know..stuff..its really hard to explane... >.<...well any like "gay pointers" would be good.

    Thanks
     
  2. TreeFiddy

    TreeFiddy Member

    Well, first of all:

    You absolutely MUST wear this shirt
    and absolutely MUST wear these shorts
    If you wanna learn how to have gay sex, look at porn...I guess
    And if all else fails try to act like Jack from Will and Grace as MUCH AS POSSIBLE!!!!

    :rolleyes:

    Look dude, don't try to look or act any particular way, or fit any standard, just live your life the way you would if you were straight, but have a gay sexual orientation.
     
  3. well_ok_then

    well_ok_then Member

    I know what you mean. I didnt mean to sound like I wanted to be all different and stuff. I guess I just dont like the way I am now, I find myself to be boring...
     
  4. TreeFiddy

    TreeFiddy Member

    Yea, we all have a tendancy to feel a little inadequate at times...but looking through your other posts you don't see like that boring of a person, in fact I highly doubt you are. Try not to beat yourself for being "boring", maybe your just an introvert? I know a good amount of people who, while they may not be constanty grabbing laughs and attention, are very interesting and fun people to know.
     
  5. SelfControl

    SelfControl Boned.

    Make yourself interesting then. But you need to find yourself interesting. Relying on other people to tell you how to be cool will make you more boring than you can possibly imagine.


    If you want more practical advice, look at this, and then avoid being like that at all costs:

    http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=28362024&MyToken=920ae939-54bd-4328-8540-d50c2d4c3871
     
  6. Night_Owl49

    Night_Owl49 Since 2006

    Just be yourself, don't try to "be gay". That's so fucking lame...
     
  7. daysye

    daysye dumb as a box of hammers

    there is no right way to be gay.....just be yourself.....if every gay person acted like every other gay person the world would be lamer than what it is now......if you want to 'act the gay way' then you would in a sence be selling out to the heteros because they want to be able to stereotype all of us into one category
     
  8. SelfControl

    SelfControl Boned.

    Oh yes, let's blame the heteros for our terminal lack of imagination... :rolleyes: Cmon, you think heteros write all those godawful gay magazines?
     

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