so I meet a gurl, she starts talking to me. I havnt felt like this about a gurl in a long time. I actually try for her you know, like do my work, make money, dont do stupid shit, dont do hard drugs any more etc; she holds my hand, kisses me n all that. calls me hunny etc;. but she has a bf. now Im thinkin I dont want to be someone that has sex with her, then ruins everything for her you know. n I dont wanna be somebody she jus has around for sex. she never mentioned anything about him, her friends told me . What should I do?
My son is going through this now with a couple of girls. They are screwing with his mind. I DON`T know why people have to do this to people. It is a very rotten thing as you have found out. I am in something that is kinda waiting itself. But you know, you are young, and I am sorry for saying that. Love in the true sense of the word, is something that does not care about how old you are or how young you are. As human beings on this earth, we are to love and care about one another. Where the hurting of someone, comes in I don`t know. But you do need to say to her,,,something like. Sorry, didn`t know you had a boy friend. Why didn`t you tell me? I am a human being with a heart that loves and I don`t need you screwing it up if this is how you are going to be. Don`t think about me, as thinking about your boyfriend, he probably wouldn`t like it and you are hurting him too. So get your head on straight girl. And I will move on, because people like you, seem to like to hurt people. There are ALOT more girls, in the world that will REALLY LOVE YOU in the true sense of the word. Just gotta keep on going, you don`t need a girl who will use you. Abuse you, and hurt the beautiful person you are. You are so much more than that. Like I said I don`t know why people have to hurt people in this world, it sucks but you know where I am if you need to talk about this some more, don`t plan on leaving Hip anytime too soon. Take care you are in my thoughts and my prayers ,,,,Dreamin`
