Ok ppl here it is: I have this good friend that I have been trying to get with for a while but theres just one problem...HE'S NOT GAY!!! Well atleast thats what he says. He claims that he is the straightest guy I'll ever meet but he has let me touch his dick & balls, touch his ass, peck him on the lips, and even lick his dick one time. He even use to have sex with some dude when he was younger. He's the type of dude that just wants to fit in and follows what everybody does so I believe hes forcing himself to like girls and not guys. I do think that he does like girls because he does stare at them and when his ex-girlfriend use to talk dirty to him on the phone he would get hard but I deff think he likes boys deep down. I remember one time when I put on gay porn he got hard and then rushed ova to the computer and turned it off. He also was startin to get hard when I was touchin his dick one time but he told me to stop when it was gettin hard. He has this big shield over his sexuality and masculinity. He likes to play around ova everything except for those two subjects. He gets serious (not mad) when something will make him sound gay or soft. Does wrestling mean anything??? I ask this because hes always tryin to wrestle me. He looks for small reasons so that I will get smart with him and then he will grab me and we will start wrestling. I don't know yall...I think this is the most complicated person I have ever met or the most confused. I think hes the typical boy that likes dudes but doesn't want to. The problem is that I like him past sex...I really have fallen in love with him. What do yall think I should???
Sounds to me like he's at least bi, but I wouldn't push him if I were you. I'm straight, but I wouldn't push a woman into having sex with me, whether I suspected her of being attracted to me or not. I figure if she is and it's meant to be, she'll come around. And if she's got hangups that keep her from acting on her feelings, they're her hangups, and I really shouldn't be trying to override them. I think the same ethics apply in your case.
Yeah have to say I agree, don't push him into anything. Only thing I'd suggest is to ask him and see what he says.
