I need an advice

Hey,my sister got a problem.She is so nervous because she'll study in another town,but she don't want, she want to stay here.She talks all the time for her problems.Yesterday we were on a theatrical play.After that, we went to a piano bar with her boyfriend and one friend of mine, but she wasn't with us.We talked about her attitude and her boyfriend told me that once she annoyed him with her talking only for her problems, but after one minute, she was ok.We all told her that the things will be all right, but she didn't hear us.Today I told her to make attention to do not hurt the people around her.I told her that Nasko/her boyfriend/ is worried about her.Then,she became angree and she told me that she'll never confess nothing to us.She has a very difficult character.I'm worried that she'll really make something bad for her relationship.But her boyfriend is a great person, maybe the greatest and the most suitable for her.I've never intervene in their attitudes, and now I feel really bad, I think that I made a big mistake.Please,advice me!

 

Hmm.....well, this is coming from my own personal experience: stay out of it.

My best friend always came to me with her problems, and no matter what I suggested, her and her boyfriend would continue to fight over petty things. There is only so much you can do for your sister, and trying to fix her relationship isn't one of them. Let them deal with their own problems, because if they can't work out something as trivial as that, then they shouldn't be together.

 

oh,I've never tried to fix her relationship.I just told her to calm down and stop talk all the time about her problems, because she annoy everyone,unclude her boyfriend.I know I made a mistake, but I just needed an advice. you're right that I musn't do that,but It's made already.He is the one person that can made her calm down,if she tries to understand him and stop complaining

 

So you told her that she needs to calm down and share her problems and she got mad at you?

 

yes,it's strange,but like I said-she has a veeery difficult character.She can get mad once while my grandmother brings her a tea, but she didn't want to drink it