Anyone I mention this to thinks there's something wrong with me, but I actually enjoy being tied up and forced to submit to Stephen's arbitrary--and sometimes humiliating--sexual whims.
If by "weird" you mean "sexually amazing as well as drop dead gorgeous", then I am afraid I have to agree with you.
Thank you Hacker! I just don’t understand why everyone I mention my sex life to seems to think it’s disgusting, and that I should feel ashamed. I like being handcuffed and blindfolded; I like not being in control; and I don’t see anything gross about being marked.
I think whatever turns you on (as long as it isn't hurting someone against their will) it's cool by me. You are ultra-sexy and knowing that you are also so sexually charged is quite the turn on.
rmorgan, When you say, "being marked".....What do you mean? This couold mean any number of things. Please clarify. Thanks, Lance
Ok, yeah... you know what? That's HAWT!!! Seriously though... what makes for great sex is swimming in each other's bodily fluids... Absolutely NOTHING wrong with that at all. People make you feel ashamed for THAT? hmmm... I know some girls feel it is humiliating, but there are plenty that really enjoy a good smattering... Bottom line: If you're game, play ball...
I have handcuffs hanging from my rear view mirror so everyone that I know pretty much knows where I stand. They're probably just jealous of you that you are that comfortable with yourself and your relationship to be doing that.
I love that! I have a fantasy about going to a party and keeping a pair of handcuffs in my back pocket, then giving them to whichever guy I want to tie me up and have his way with me.
That would be a great way to have some fun. But get the fur lined ones, don't want to hurt him too much.
Ok, I don't think thats weird. Like an animal marking his territory with urine, it's the same. They come out of the same hole..ok Im done.
Do you guys think it would be a turn-on if I cuff myself to the headboard tonight and wait for Stephen to come to bed? Thinking about this shit is really getting me hot!
If he's into it, then yeah... But if *I* came home to find my partner handcuffed to the bedposts, I'd be worried about her safety before I get turned on. But if I already knew she was gonna do that, then I guess it would be alright.