i love eating her pussy - she rarely repays the favour

Discussion in 'Oral and Anal Sex' started by flawlessuk, Jun 15, 2013.

  1. flawlessuk

    flawlessuk Member

    I love eating her pussy but when it comes to the other half eating my cock she I reluctant why is this.
     
  2. LetLovinTakeHold

    LetLovinTakeHold Cuz it will if you let it

    C'est la vie
     
  3. Think about sucking cock. Visualize it. Then think again about your question.
     
  4. tuesdaystar

    tuesdaystar Interneter

    You love giving oral - maybe she doesn't.

    If that's a deal breaker, your deal may be broken.
     
  5. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

    She might not feel comfortable doing that. Tuesday has a point.

    I'm like you, I love giving a girl oral. But I've never had it done to me, ever. No big deal though. My last physical ex(from way more than 10 years ago) just wasn't ready for it yet. She was extremely timid in a sexual way, and the last thing I wanted to do was to pressure her into doing anything she didn't feel comfortable doing. In fact, I never even craved it(as in having my dick sucked) during our two-and-a-half-year relationship. During this relationship, I gave her oral, and she got me off via handjobs. I was still getting off at least, so I was a happy camper. And now, my current SO always says she wants to suck me, and taste me. Life goes on, and things work out in one way or another, sooner or later.
     
  6. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

    All you guys who aren't getting blowjobs . . . why are you going down on her???

    I mean it's great that you're being unselfish . . . but then you complain that it's one sided.

    Seems to me the quickest way to make it two sided is that no one gets oral :) maybe that'll make her start to try things.
     
  7. silk896

    silk896 Member

    Communication between couples is a key. Talk to her about what you'd like - get her perspective.
    Is it she's scared you'll ejaculate in or near her mouth? That can be solved.

    Don't demand, don't plead. just talk.
     
  8. Piney

    Piney Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    BEG









    :troll:
     
  9. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    I like licking near my wife's genitals but she disapproves of me licking them directly & never gives me an acceptable reason for why she dislikes the idea of oral..
    She does touch my penis occasionally but only how she wants to.
    But the way she touches me is a big turn on & that sort of makes up for the lack of oral sex she allows me to give her. So you just have to compromise to keep in your partners good books.
    She dislikes me touching her anal area to so I just have to find other ways to stimulate her body instead.
    Sorry to hear flawlessuk is in the same situation as me.
     
  10. builderjohn09

    builderjohn09 Member

    Hey man, at least you're getting it occasionally. I've been with my girlfriend for 2-1/2 years and I haven't gotten it yet and blow jobs are my favorite thing. I give her oral and she cums from it at least 4 times a week and twice a day alot of times. Trust me it is a huge point of contention in our relationship and has caused many very bad fights. So I feel your pain. For me it is very close to ending our relationship but she refuses to converse with me about which makes.matters way worse. My advice is to.try and talk.with her about as adults so that it doesn't fester like it has in my relationship and turn into.a problem that causes dismay between the two of you.
     
  11. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

    some girls just dont like sucking cock its just a fact of life,it you find one let me know!
     
  12. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

    when two people are pleasuring each other, you don't do what YOU like, you do what THEY like.
     
  13. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

    true
     
  14. hitman73

    hitman73 Member

    My wife sucks me about once a fortnight but hates me going down on her. Should i complain?? Or just say oh well. I say Oh well.
     
  15. bigdaddyo

    bigdaddyo Member

    Grab yourself two hand fulls of her hair, tell her to smile like a donut and fuck her mouth until she is a panting, slobbering mess.


    Or talk to her about it and maybe understand her reluctance.
     
  16. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

    My guess is that she doesn't like it. Simple, but cruel (not that she can help it!). I'm really sorry for you!

    I must say, most women I've ever talked about sex with hate sucking cock. I have yet to meet women who like sucking cock. I see myself as some kind of freak, because I do crave sucking my man.
     
  17. I'm honestly stunned to see there are so many men on here who don't get frequent blowjobs or blowjobs at all in their relationships. It kind of annoys me that you still please your GFs orally, yet they won't reciprocate? That's a bit off. What ever happened to give and take? If you're happy with this, then fine, but those unhappy with this arrangement, should definitely talk to their partners about this.

    I'm sure it's just the association with porn and how aggressive it can be- You rarely see a guy eating out a girl in porn and it looks horrible. The girls must be afraid of getting their heads pushed down, gagging on the cock, the taste of the semen filling their mouths. It's most likely the pressure of doing it well too- but I think it's harder to give a girl oral than a man. Am I wrong?

    As for me, I love sucking cock. And always do it, because his pleasure is my pleasure. I wouldn't expect a man to give me oral if I refused to give it to him. When it comes to my friends, I have a handful who enjoy doing it (like 2 or 3), I have a few who only do it cos their man wants them to but they're indifferent about it and the rest don't like to do it at all. It's part of sex... I just don't understand why girls make it such an issue especially if it's your boyfriend and not some random guy off the street. It makes me sad to read about all these unsucked cocks. :(
     
  18. creampie00

    creampie00 If you can't DODGE it....RAM it!

    flawlessuk- did you ever straighten this out? For some girls, it can take some getting used to for sure. Try not to take it too personal. If you are engaged to this girl, you have plenty of time for all that!
     
  19. jimandjan

    jimandjan Member

    Well if you enjoy giving her pleasure. have fun doing that. If she don't like it I doubt if she ever will. Depends on how important you feel oral is in your relationship.

    It should be a two way street, but life's not always fair.
     
  20. flawlessuk

    flawlessuk Member

    No I haven't and it doesn't seem to be getting solved so I'm just go.na hive up on this matte. But thanks to all the sensable replies. And beg will never work lol
     

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