I like to give head but it grosses me out at the same time... read on for details.

ok so I don't mind having a dick in my mouth, I actually enjoy it. I do, however, absolutely HATE anything slimy. So when I'm giving my boyfriend head, everything is great at the beginning. The problem begins when I start salivating a lot and then his thick, icky, sticky pre-cum or whatever this stuff is (tastes salty) starts coming out. It's so bad that I start gagging and have to stop repeatedly which of course reduces the amount of pleasure my man is getting. He is the first guy I've ever actually enjoyed giving a blow job to and he's actually the first to receive a complete blow job from me. I'm also the first girl to ever make him cum with a blowjob and I absolutely do not mind if he cums in my mouth. It doesn't taste too bad, actually kind of sweet so the actual cum is not what grosses me out. What can I do about the thick sticky stuff that comes out at first? How do I get over the fact that it completely grosses me out? I feel really bad because he is an amazing lover and always puts me first as far as sex goes.

 

Try wiping the sticky stuff off & then enjoy what cums out next.
Hopefully not pee !

 

Ah, it's something you just have to get used to.

 

The issue sounds psychological to me, so I think the first step would be to find out the origin of where you developed the adversion to the "slimy texture". Does the "salty" taste of his pre-cum bug you as well or is it just the texture?

Logically, salt is in everything we eat anyway, so the taste in of itself shouldn't bother you if you think about it that way.

A solution would be to take quick breaks and have something sweet (like juice) to drink in short bursts to get rid of the taste. Guava, peach and pineapple juices are recommended.

If he isn't already, also you can ask your boyfriend to wash his penis before receiving a blowjob from you if it's the smell that bothers you. Hopefully he already practices good hygiene.

 

If it's just the precum she dislikes (?) she could put it on her fingers & insert it anally - either his / hers ?
That's recycling or another use for it ?

 

it's not really the taste, it's a texture thing. I've always hated anything slimy and sticky since I was a little girl. I don't know why. It's definitely not his hygiene. He always washes well right before I do it and I don't mind his smell, I actually kinda like it.

 

Well dont ask me, I dont know why some of you dont want to play with his thing all the time, they are awesome things. There cant be that much pre cum

 

When the slimy thing starts to ooze, wipe it off with your hand and continue sucking. If it's really a lot, have a small towel close by, or kitchen paper. If it continues to ooze for a while, you can lick the shaft, or the balls till there is less of the offending fluid.

 

What 'just a woman' said is really good advice.


But I don't know of a cure persay since it is more of a perception issue.

I guess you could think of it as a challenge and try to over expose yourself to the situation of a slimy texture (foods, etc.) that you know are safe and are in control, until you just become desensitized to your dislike of "slimy".

 

I'm the same with pork pies. Not the type that are solid & meaty, you understand, but the ones that have loads of jelly turn me.

 

idk if its an offensive ooze.. Might wanna have that checked for an STD.

how could his cum/ejaculate not bother you but the precum does. when precum is often sweeter.

sounds like a case of drippy dick.

 

Use a condon problem solved

 

Pre-cum isn't actually cum. It's male "lube", so to speak. When the pre-cum oozes out I get excited because I know his cock is going to start squrting cum soon. But if it bothers you, just wipe the pre-cum off and get ready for the main course.

 

1st time I've ever heard someone say they liked the texture/taste of cum more than pre-cum. I'm with the other guy that's thinking maybe he has the clap or something worse.

 

he does not have an std... you people are funny. i have a background in health care so i would know the signs of an std.

 

If you have a background in STD healthcare then you would know that many STDs don't show any symptoms at all & are not detectable without a swab being taken & undergoing full incubation in a laboratory.

 

try to use condom , its safety and keep you free from deceases.

 

Seamen is what the sticky stuff is called. And it goes like a thick jelly when it first comes out because its there to protect the sperm. However it will go back to a watery state after a.minute or 2.

 

My bf is usually at the slimy stage before we go. Pre cum and what not but that's just love juice and I don't have a problem with it. My own saliva doesn't bother me either. It is sex afterall, I shower straight after anyway if I can.
I'd make a claim to use more saliva next time. Get it on your hands, spit on his cock and handjob him. Wipe your hands on him.