wasnt sure if this should go here or in the confessions section. cus it is a confession after all...im a complete wus im 3rd year in college (for you kiwis and ausies that means uni) and im friends with this girl. she was actually my first friend here. guess that makes it 2 years. iv had a crush on her for all this time. does she like me the same? i dont know. iv always been a complete fucking wus when it comes to situations like this. i mainly fear the awkwardness that would ensue if i told her this and it didnt work out, and i would have to see her all the time and, you know, it would be real awkward shes got a killer body from working out, but this wholesome vibe at the same time, like totally moral and innocent. fuck
how close are you two? if you're decently close, and you know she's a good and kind person, trust her to accept what you have to say without judgement. it's worth it. going through the agony of not-knowing isn't necessary.
Tis better to know the truth than to live without knowing and stressing over holding ones feelings back. You need to make sure to come clean at the right time though, which unfortunately may already have passed. Since you are good friends, you need to weigh the value of what you have with her now against what you think you want with her. Ask her friends exactly how she feels about you, you can find out a lot that way.
wow, im really sorry, i have this trouble too, but oposite cus im a girl lol but i guess the only advise i can give is yes, ask the friends. as a girl i know that my friends know everything, and through them iv met ppl and such...friends r helpful that way but yes, id defanitly try to find out. as its quoted in the movie Bubble Boy "id rather hold u in my arms for a minute and die then liveing the rest of my life wishing i could..." (idk, ur situation reminded me of that lol)
My good friend, I was in the same spot in my 3rd year in uni... She had an affair though. Even though I am quite sure that your friend knows everything (yes I consider males to be the ultimate victims), with all my heart I suggest you talk to her...
Aww, I feel bad for you. I'm sure that has to be tough. I was kind of in that same situation when I confessed how I really felt about my best friend (who is now my husband) He and I were best friends. We talked about everything, we hung out together, and I just thought he was the best friend that I had ever had! I started to have feelings for him though, and I was scared to death to tell him. I remember him dating women and how I would be furious. I wanted him, but I was so afraid of being rejected and screwing up our friendship. Finally, one day while we were playing around on the computer, and I confessed. I was so nervous! But I was pleasantly relieved to find that he too, had more than friend feelings for me as well. We started dating, got married two years later, had three kids, and have been together for 9 years. Go for it. You'll kick yourself if you don't. Isn't it better to know, than to not know and wonder what might have been? Good luck vibes to you. Much peace.
