I know alot of people here arnt into this

But for those who are.... If u were to get married how would u wanna do it.. i think for me it would be bare foot on a beach some where at sunset with no one else around.

 

i didnt have a wedding but if i did it wold be in the mountains near a watterfall and my daughter wolda been the flower girl in a all white pixie costume. i wolda got to dress as a fairy too... maybe with pink ballet (however you spell it) slippers, the ones that lace up the legs! and my hubby wold have to shave his mountain hillbilly beard LOL!!
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something similar - only in the mountains, maybe with bare feet in a clear mountain stream. I wouldn't want a traditional wedding in a church, that's for certain. I would want to have a party too, maybe a week or two after the wedding - not the traditional reception per se.

 

hehe.....ummm it would have to be in the forest when it is still kinda light outside and he would be naked and i would be in a green dress.

 

Sky diving out of a plane... will be cool as hell ( I wonder why its so hard to find a girl that likes to do the things I do )

 

I'd love to just be able to get married, period. My partner and I have been together for 6 years and unless we move to Canada, it isn't going to happen.

If it could, I would have a camp wedding. I belong to a cooperative in Michigan that is founded on peace, ecology and justice and it has beautiful land and a wonderful peaceful energy. I'd bring all my friends/family for a entire weekend celebration of food, fun, folk dancing, fire side singing, laughing and celebrating love. Not sure what I'd wear...something simple, but I'd have flowers in my hair and I would want to be surprised by what she wore.

peace & light

 

then u should move to canada! its beautiful up here

 

I love Canada. Beautiful country... Toronto Rocks, I can drink their legally too lol

 

western canada is nicer then eastern...less people and less dirty air... and mountains! and u can drink at 18 lol

 

i would be in on the beach as well! of course barefoot...with my favorite flower garland on and this pretty white dress (not a wedding dress...more beach attire) and with my steal your face hemp necklace on haha seriosuly and not very big crowd...


then for the reception we'd have a dj and people playing their acoustics too...a big bonfire...lots of partying, and id spend the night out on the beach with my man, watching the sky...having that infamous sex on the beach

peace and love

 

I actually have family in Alberta, and I am seriously considering it. I have to wait until my girls are out of high school (9th, 10th and 11th), it wouldn't be fair to disrupt them now, but you know..I just might do it.


peace & light

 

mine would be on a beach or island... just me and my love and the celbrant no noe else.. and he can just preform some nature ritual or something, not the whole christian routine... we would be dressed in white the both of us with pretty flowers all over an then they could take a few pics and then we get the time to ourselves...

i dont want a million peopel there and i dont really believe in marriage.

 

LOL notice how like no guys are responding to this? for some reason this cracks me up....

 

where in alberta if u dont mind me asking

 

i'd want a ceromony like the one in once upon a time in mexico. or maybe i just want those pants. any who.. anybod notice that a funeral and marriage are both called a ceromony. creepy

 

With very few people, like only CLOSE family and a couple of my friends. And I want it outside, near water, like at a river or the ocean where u can hear the sound of the water in the background.

 

i would deffinetly want somthing involving some kind of earthy setting and shamans

 

I want to be married on the beach in Maui. Its sooooo beautiful there. Just a few friends and family would be there. It would be an intimate loving enviroment. I would wear a very simple white dress, barefoot with a little crown of flowers upon my head. The ceremony would take place right be4 sunset when the sun looks like its hitting the earth.

 

i'm in the process of going through my second divorce. it's very tempting for me to bitterly assert that never again shall i be so foolish as to marry, that marriage is a fraud and that i don't believe in marriage, or even love. at the point where i am now, i'm not even thinking about falling in love, or even dating, for quite some time. i'm looking foreward to being independent & just myself for a little while. however, there is i admit, still the hope that i might meet someone special in the future, who will carry me off to a little homestead & build me my dream home, share my vision of a better life, be a loving partner to me and a father to my kids, and leave me the fuck alone while i work on my art...well, maybe someday. but not now.


my first wedding was a traditional church wedding nightmare. i'm not christian, but my in-laws were, and i felt totally disrespected at my own wedding. my second wedding was in fact a handfasting, simple, informal - and perhaps a bit rushed - in a friend's living room. should i ever get married again, i really don't want the hassle of a wedding, even a simple handfasting. i'd really rather have an ordained friend just drop by at our home, maybe for dinner, and do a quick, informal but genuine ceremony for just us and the kids, and whoever else happens to be around. (i'd like to have one of those homes whose doors are never closed to a friend.) actually, since we'd be a step-family, or even a blended family if he has kids too, i'd like a ceremony that included everyone. i learned the hard way with my current marriage that your husband doesn't just marry you. he'd have to pledge to love, honor and cherish my kids as well.

for a honeymoon - i couldn't even imagine, i've never really had much of a honeymoon. the kids will stay with my ex, or their grandparents, and my love and i would go off somewhere romantic, somewhere beautiful i've never been before, or even somewhere familiar and loved, somewhere outdoors...nature hikes, rolling around in a meadow full of daisies, skinny-dipping under a full moon, and making love in a gentle rain...

of course, right now, none of that is anything more than a fantasy. falling in love is just too much for me to handle emotionally right now. but someday i'll get through the darkness & hopefully he'll be waiting for me on the other side...

 

Hmmm in 10+ years I would like to go off to some remote beach destination with awesome scuba diving and get married-no family no friends, just a personal ceromony that is too special to share with anyone else we would know.