...in the waking world. I'm trying to sublimate my sexual energy into different activities, and its actually working in a lot of ways. What's weird is I haven't had a wet dream yet, but I've had a few dreams where I had these powerful, super-orgams, only to wake up certain my underwear would be a sticky mess and find that they were, in fact, clean. The human mind is amazing. In the dreams, I could have these powerful, multiple orgasms that felt as real as anything in real life. I could achieve dream orgasm with my dream hand, but after awhile I was just reaching it strictly with my mind, without any dream body accompaniment.
That's the main advantage of Lucid Dreaming - the state in which you are dreaming, but you are actually aware that you are dreaming and can, consequntially, conciously take control of the dream. The most commonly experienced state of Lucid Dreaming is that of being able to fly, but on occasion I have been able to turn my dreamward attentions towards having sex, and in these circumstances, the sky's the limit. It may occasionally result in a bit of a nocturnal ejaculatory discharge, but that's a small price to pay.
A lot of people would think its weird not to. I was just interested to see how much it would affect my consciousness by not doing it for a year. Lately Ive been avoiding any type of nude or erotic material too. The multiple godgasms I've had in some of my dreams were definitely worth it. Its like I have a subconscious need to experience an orgasm, so my subconscious finds a way. Maybe that's what heaven is, one giant, ongoing orgasm that lasts a trillion years. Then, of course we eventually get tired of it and incarnate into the beings that we are now where we have to go through a bunch of life challenges (growing up/ going though relationships) to eventually experience brief moments of the same type of ecstasy. Death is either one eternally long orgasm or its like being in a cosmic womb. I'm not sure exactly. Purgatory is probably like being stuck in traffic for eternity, and hell is like getting your nuts smashed for eternity.
Get the poison out man! You'll go blind if you don't. I've gone about 6 months without jerkin the jack, but I was dating a nympho at the time.
The meaning of life is to desire and experience orgasm! Well I think experiences pleasure and bliss of some kind, as well as be deprived from it ties into the meaning of life. Its probably so we have a goal to seek out. If life was just a constant, blissful heroin high, then it would just be sort of innocuous and meaningless. The soul needs some level of pleasure though. Otherwise I wouldn't experience these traumatic, mentally created orgasms while dreaming. My immune system is doing really good right now too from the abstinence.
I suffer from retarded ejaculation during sex (although not during masturbation, as the situation is far more controlled) as a result of epilepsy medications that I am on, so whenever I have a date that is likely / certain to reult in having sex, I make to to abstain from masturbating for at least 36 - 48 hours beforehand, so as to hype myself up, making orgasm easier to reach. The thing is, that the more you conciously try not to, the stronger the yearning to do it. It's a case of wanting most that thing that you know you can't have.
Why ? is it a religious buddah thing ? i know someone in this state of mind but i don't think it lasts you are who you are but if you genuinely don't want to then all the power to you my friend i could never do it cause i don't want to . but i did give up a 20 yr cigarette and dope habit with now problem
If you are referring to my post, then no, it's not any sort of religious ritual, but a fact that the longer you force yourself to go without having an orgasm, the easier it is to reach one when you need to.
Ok I understand now I think Sex has so many variables that I or we shouldn't make judgements on others . All the best
