I have some questions regarding masturbation

Hello everyone,I am a newbie to masturbation,just discovered it few months ago.

1>What is the most common position in which guys masturbate?

2>Can I develop blue balls by incomplete masturbation or holding back orgasm?

3>Also I generally masturbate to tickle my penis and not ejaculate but sometimes some(not entire)of the semen just squirts out,is it harmful if some of the semen is left behind inside the penis?

 

1) With the hand touching the penis. Details about posture and such vary.

2) Yes, but you can also cure them.

3) Any semen that remains in the penis will be washed out the next time you urinate. No medical problem.
Unexpended semen can potential cause a laundry problem. Consider an erect penis, with some semen in the urethra. The penis gets softer and smaller, decreasing the size of the urethra. The semen oozes out, staining a young gentleman's underwear. Fortunatly, semen is water soluble and will wash out easily.

 

Thank You Mike.
Also do you know what's the maximum time limit a masturbation/arousal session shouldn't exceed?

 

One should stop masturbating 20 minutes after your penis gets sore, unless you are close to cumming.

Seriously, there is no maximum limit. Enjoy yourself. Take your time. The only regret that I have about masturbation is that, when I was starting, I rushed my orgasms. ("Can't let people know what I'm doing.") Take your time. If you have a private afternoon, dedicate a couple of hours to self pleasure. I know privacy is harder for people who live a home, but quickly stroking one out so no one catches you develops bad habits.

The other tip I would give to beginners to remember the rest of your body. Pleasure can be found in other body parts, not just the penis. Try stroking your nipples with one hand. On that lazy afternoon I mentioned earlier, take the time to explore your whole body and see what feels good where. The penis is fun, but its not the only fun around.

 

I read that prolonged sexual arousal/penis stimulation results into blue balls?How long is 'prolonged'?

 

Blue balls is the result of prolonged stimulation without orgasm. If you orgasm, no blue balls.

 

Ahhhhhh, males.....
Another reason to be female.
besides being able to have multiple orgasms, we don't get blue balls. teh, heh.

 

On the Eighth day, God still had some details to finish, dot the butterfly wings, etc.

He comes to the Garden and says to Adam and Eve, "There are two body functions I haven't yet assigned to your genders.. I thought I'd ask you what you want. So, who wants to pee standing up?'

Adam leaps to his feet, raises his hand and jumping up and down, says "Me, God! Me! I want to pee standing up."

God smiles, "Very well Adam. You shall pee standing up."
"And you, Eve, you will have multiple orgasms."


At least men don't get cramps.

 

MikeE seems to be having all the best replies here

 

Good answers MikeE

1. Get comfortable, reclining in bed, propped up with a couple of pillows, with a bottle of lube handy and a warm damp wash cloth for easy clean up afterwards.

2. Don't worry about blue balls, they are a myth, it OK to tease yourself close to cumming or not, as often as you a want, nothing bad will come of it. There is really no such thing. & if you really feel like you need to ejaculate, just do it , as often as you like.

3. Leaving some cum behind won't do any harm, just have fun and don't worry about it.

 

There is no certain way to masturbate. Do it as often as you like, any way that you like. Masturbation is normal and healthy. There are no dangers or risks.

 

Yeah as the others have said, just do what really feels good for you, just obviously nothing dangerous Doing it in bed is usually the most comfortable in my experience.

And the advice to do it slowly is brilliant, the difference in orgasm in getting it done in a minute compared to even 15 minutes or more is huge, might be hard to go for long at first, but in time you get better at controlling it

 

What you call blue balls, I call edging. Edging is good for you, and your future partners. Delayed gratification teaches endurance, and can result is stronger climax later.

 

There is such a thing as masturbating too much, but as a rule your body simply won't let you overdo it. Either it'll refuse to grant you an erection, or you'll get a painful, burning sensation on the glans - or both.

Even if you manage to force yourself to continue, without allowing a suitable recovery period, reaching a climax can be extremely difficult, requiring a great deal of energy.

 

You cannot hurt yourself by masturbating for a long period without orgasm.

If you do so long enough you will ejaculate in reverse, into your bladder.
The medical term is "retrograde ejaculation".
This will not cause harm, but you may feel a bit "cheated", as you will not have the pleasure of full orgasm.

If you are young and horny this will happen to you on occasion as you try very hard to prolong the experience.
Don't worry about it. Eventually if it happens often enough you'll learn to recognize it and go ahead with your orgasm.

Boys and men have been masturbating since the beginning of time.
Every possible variation has been tried already. Trust me, you are not doing anything new.
Enjoy yourself and don't worry about it.

 

You asked about position..

When I was a kid I often masturbated standing up.
This was because I was doing it in various places as and when I had the opportunity.
As an adult I am usually at home or in a motel when I masturbate, so I'm lying on my back in bed.

Recently I re-discovered how pleasant masturbating while standing can be...
When standing your balls move much more as you stroke it and I enjoy this.

I haven't tried it while hanging upside down, but...

 

Mike seems to have the best answers for men's masturbation!