i have never entered my penis in my wife vagina,

Hi
I have been married for 11 years and i have never entered my penis in my wife vagina,

I am 5ft 10 and my wife is 4ft 11 and weare having trouble to have another baby.

We luckily had a child in year 2000, as we got married in 1999 and then me penis did not enter my wife vagina and she still got pregnant.

My wife she does not like smear test, as when they put the applicator inside her she feels uncomftable.

when i am trying to have sex my penis is directing to the vagina and then it is bending down or rubbing against between her thighs and sometimes i get sick and tired and it get weak due to it does not go in to her vagina.

We are trying for more children, but these past 10 years we have been unsucessful,

i was at a stage to look for another woman to have an affair, as i have never had proper sex.

We went to see the Doctor and my wife thinks she is Vaginmius, she was given 3 applicator to insert into her Vagina, but i think she done it may be once or twice and i dont think she reached the large applicator.

I am just depressed all these years and we can not do anything about it, as we are now in our 40's. She is worried she will be in her Menaupose.

We went to see a lady therpaist and she just talks and she how our relationshiop is. I though it waste of time, as our real problem is sex, as i can not penetrate into my Wife Vagina.

She says i am stress and i can feel she gets tense, so i do not know if she is scared, but she saying no. I am really confused, so this is why i came on this forum to see if anybody in my situation and see how they have helped them with thier sex life, as i want more children.

Please help, as your help will us and my wife, as my child say when are you going to get me a brother or sister.

Please help or advise.

 

What the he'll, I'm bored so im just gonna go ahead and assume this is not a troll post...

There's not really much you can do if it's uncomfortable for her to even use the applicator thing-a-ma-jig.

The only thing I can suggest is to try just having fun making out and see if that eventually leads to anything...I said eventually, not that night. It's going to take a lot of time working up to even a finger I'm guessing, so maybe taking the focus off sex and putting it on intimacy with your wife might lead to her feeling relaxed enough to try moving forward.

Idk man, I wish you guys all the best!

 

Thank you for your reply barefootlocks.

I honeslty do not know what to do, as i have masterbated so many times to make me feel good.

I trying to persuade my wife, but she has tried her best, as she wants children and she has gone to the Doctor quite few time, but due to we have child, he just said keep trying. We have been trying over 10 years and no success and for me it is very distressing, as i am still a virgin, if i have not inserted my penis into my wife vagina.

Please anybody help.

 

dude, you need foreplay big time.

like hours of it.
days of it.

 

From the things I've heard, this type of syndrome (or whatever the proper name is) has more to do with a psychological block than with anything physical. I honestly think the best way to relax the muscles down there is to relax her mind first.

Either way, props for stickin with it! You must really love your wife for all the right reasons. Most guys woulda' said see ya.

Totally sucks though that you're a married virgin. My condolences.

 

Do you know what alcohol is??

 

Have some wine, play some soothing music. Kiss for awhile, lots of foreplay. Rub against her....over time theres no way she could say no.

 

I think what OP is talking about is an actual physical condition that makes it next to impossible to enter the vagina. Not that she doesn't want to or is to tense to, more that she is incapable of doin the deed. OP, does that sound right?

 

Is this thread for real? If my man couldn't/wouldn't fuck me,....

 

maybe ur gay

 

I recommend doing a paternity test on the kid

 

maybe she has the vagina dentata or w/e and is afraid to bite your cock off?

 

Do you need some broke-dick pills ? I get spam e-mails advertising them all the time, I could forward them to you.

 

I get those same damn spam e-mails!

 

That kid ain't urs

 

We went to see the Doctor and my wife thinks she is Vaginmius, she was given 3 applicator to insert into her Vagina, but i think she done it may be once or twice and i dont think she reached the large applicator.

I Somtimes thought to myself do i have problem, do i have Erectile Dysfunction, but i dont, as i do get a hard on, as i can masterbate, but after trying for sex and when it does not go in to my wife vagina i get frustrated and sometimes it get weaked and then i have to rub between her thigh close to her vagina.

I am just depressed all these years and we can not do anything about it, as we are now in our 40's. She is worried she will be in her Menaupose.

We went to see a lady therpaist BASRT Accredited Supervisor and she just talks and she how our relationshiop is. I though it waste of time, as our real problem is sex, as i can not penetrate into my Wife Vagina.

She says i am stress and i can feel she gets tense, so i do not know if she is scared, but she saying no. I am really confused, so this is why i came on this forum to see if anybody in my situation and see how they have helped them with thier sex life, as i want more children.

Please help, as your help will us and my wife, as my child say when are you going to get me a brother or sister.

This is no joke and it is real life situation and this is why i came on the website, as you can not speak to the family members, friends, as they will just laugh and joke.

My wife has seen the lady therapist psychology service, BASRT Accredited Supervisor, but they talk to you and try to find your relationship and see if you have any other problem. I went couple of times with my wife and i did not find it would help me, as it was only talk and talking about our relationship.

My wife got pregnant somtimes in November / December 1999, as my penis did not enter her vagina,the end of my penis may be at the correct position and i have injected my sperm from into her vagina, as i can still remember my penis never went inside her vagina and luckily she got pregnant.

It is not happening now, as the sperm either between her outside vagina, thighs or on the bed sheet.

So you can see my frustration, as my wife went to the Doctor and he said you Know you have already a child , so you need to keep trying, as is not you have problem. We have been trying 10 years and my wife and i are already fed up.

Thank you all for looking into this and any further advice will be appreciated.

The is my Child for certain.

My penis is not broken or eaten off.

I am not gay.

We do lot of foreplay and somtimes it cum too quickly, if i had not sex for a while, but generally i am fine.

 

ok well get her drunk then and push harder..maybe try a cock ring too if you cant keep it up long enough..or elastics ..or turkey baster

 

So, get her drunk and stick it in her pooper instead.

 

What the hell ? I don't know where to begin on this one . Yeah try alcohol . And maybe a paternity test . Cause somebody had to get in that tiny giny.

 

to be fair to the probable troll, the condition he so blatantly misspells does exist. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus