I Have Bicurious Feelings? But...

I say I am straight but curious, but it could be more.

The thing is, I help run a Calvinist Christian group on Facebook and very involved in Christian stuff. While I don't see a disconnect between my faith and these feelings, I don't think they will receive it well.

Did you know that John Calvin was arrested for sodomy when he was a college student? That's one reason why I don't see the disconnect.

My family doesn't talk to me that much already so they aren't a problem.

I guess I'm just shooting off thoughts here.

 

Maybe you are; maybe you aren't. Doesn't matter; God loves you just the same. Regardless of whether or not you ever act on those feelings, please explore them sufficiently so that when someone in your Christian community starts Gay-bashing, you'll have the empathy, compassion, and courage to speak up and rebuke them; not only for demonizing us, but for blasphemy; prostituting your faith to rationalize their petty hatreds. The Gospel of Jesus of Nazareth was never meant to be a bludgeon with which to attack others.

 

If you're curious, go out and explore! I am bisexual and have just as much fun with men as women, and quite often enjoy men more. I am mostly dominant with women, unless they are wearing a strapon, in which case I am very submissive. With men I am always the sub, and can't get enough of being used by them for their pleasure, it's such an unbelievably huge turn on!! Go have fun, explore your curiousities, you may be surprised how much you end up loving playing with men!

 

one of my regular bi married guys is a church member going to church each week with his wife and children .. however his marriage is sexless and i get to pleasure him anyway he likes .. is also my pleasure.

encourage you to try it with another guy at least once .. you may enjoy it and then you may not

 

Hi!

I believe you’re off to a great start which is realizing that you have sexual desires outside of what you have currently experienced in your life. It’s ok to act on your desires while remaining faithful to your religion. All activities that you pursue in your private life should be between you and that other person. I recommend that you explore your curiosity and seek out someone who understands your discretion. You don’t necessarily have to tell anyone, but if you decide to own it. Be honest with yourself and don’t let anyone stop you from living your life. I’ve had sexual experiences in my life that are and always will be exclusively between me and the other person. I made that clear in the beginning of our connection and you can, too. I wish you the best with your exploration!