I went shopping with a friend recently and we were looking at shoes. She tried on a really ugly pair and asked me if she should get them. I said I really didn't like them and that she shouldn't get them. Well she didn't, but I jusy found out that she already had a pair just like them! Now I feel very uncomfortable when she asks me advice on what shoes to wear and asks if that particuar pair is okay. Any suggestions on what I should say???
I don't understand why has she asked you. She really wanted to buy another pair or she just was wondering what you think about shoes she had already?
this reminds me of the time when my dad killed himself when i was younger. oh wait, no it doesn't; that was a real problem.
Just tell her what you really think, so what if she already had a pair of those shoes? If you don't like them, you don't like them, and she'll have to deal with it. It is always better to be honest. Besides, why the hell didn't she tell you she already had bought those shoes instead of acting as if she didn't have them?
Wow..Lucy..no need to be like that! I am sorry about your dad, but she did say she had a shoe problem..not a real problem. Shoe problems are not real problems, IMO. Anyway, I agree with everything Clover said.
if thats true, it seems like you in need of some attention or help. but dont make this about you, the girl was just asking some advice, its not a sympathy party.
