I have a problem.

I consider myself straight but recently Ive been having a hard time getting off to porn with a man and a women(my arm gets tired and i stop), i resorted to watching a tranny video and got off in like a minute. Im taking a break from porn and masterbation btw.Whats wrong with me?

 

maybe you dont like butt ugly guys fucking cute girls..

 

I dont know whats going on, i really dont wanna be gay. I think i conditioned myself or something.

 

What does transsexuals have to do with being gay??

 

You should watch some gay porn and observe your reactions. That's what I did when I was young and trying to find myself. And in those days, it meant going to a gay theatre. I found out that I am pretty straight, but I was open to finding out. Remember, Kinsey thought that straight<->gay was a continuum, a scale from 0 to 6 where 6 is totally gay. So, maybe you're a 1 or 2.

 

When I was young and naive I went into a Time Square peep show, thinking I was going to see a naked woman. The shapely person in the bikini with the large breasts looked like a woman but I found out he had a nice large cock. I had never seen a transsexual before that and although I was very shocked at first I was also aroused. Since that time I have been turned on by Transsexuals, but only those who actually could pass for a woman. Some of them are really ugly. I have never had sex with a tranny but I would rather have sex with a beautiful tranny than an ugly woman. I am most assuredly not gay but trannys do turn me on.

 

I dont like the fact that i cant get off to straight porn,before it wasnt a problem.

 

Find a real live person to have sex with. Much better than porn.

 

X-art Silvie - Perfect lovers <goggle it.. or find it on porn hub.. If straight porn you seek. Then maybe get back to basics..

 

I pretty much sexually confused myself.

 

Watch some girl solo stuff, and another time, gay porn. See what you enjoy more. If you enjoy both, start thinking more seriously about if you might be bisexual or gay. I more or less discovered I was bisexual through a little exploration and a little porn. If you are, congrats, a whole new world might just open up for you. Depending on your age of course.

 

WTF is wrong with me, i cant get off to straight porn anymore. Mabey its because i havent been laid in a while or something....no offence but i dont wanna be bi or gay. I know its something u dont choose.mabey im thinking to much about how i havent been with a girl with a girl in a while as i watch straight porn.

 

Mabey its just a phase im going through and ill get my ability to cum to straight porn back later...

 

Have you tried watching girl-on-girl?

 

I'm not a sex-therapist or anything, but I think you're probably right that this has more to do with something going on in your personal life, and probably isn't a sudden shift in your sexual orientation. I'd advise you to relax, work on getting the rest of your life back where you want it to be, and I'll bet the joys of porn will soon return to you.

Failing that, I suppose it could also be an issue with hormone levels... If its really causing a problem, don't be afraid to see someone about it. I know a therapist who's really good with sexual issues. PM me if you'd like to talk more.

~Ian

 

sometimes women get me off more than men do.. doesn't make me a lesbian though. sometimes the thought is more sexually stimulating

 

Yeah, maybe just the thought of doing something that you feel you shouldn't do is what gets you...I know that I find myself having to find new ways to get off...Mainly because I become bored with the norm...

Personally I'm not into tranny stuff...but it's what ever floats your boat my friend...

 

Don't force it, leave porn altogether, for a week or two then; if you can leave it that long - all will cum back - be assured

 

FlyFar -

First of all, there's NOTHING wrong with you.

If you're convinced that you WANT to be straight, and that you don't want to be gay or bi, then trust and believe in your conscious mind's desires.

OK - so some male stuff is getting you aroused is it? Well, fine. That doesn't mean you have to do anythign about it; any more than teh fact that you get aroused seeing a pretty girl in a short skirt means you have to jump on her and f*** the life out of her.

You have a choice with these urges - act on them, or ignore them.

I think you're more worried by the fact that you're not getting the reactions you used to with the straight porn.

Well, OK. Set it aside a while, and ignore it. Take a break from sexual activity and see what happens. If you're convinved it's girls you want, then I'm pretty sure that after a while, you'll start feeling those old familiar urges for the girls again.

Hugs,

BB

 

Thanks for the replies people.