I have a libido problem

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by Penny, Nov 11, 2007.

  1. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    This is a little embarassing for me to share but I seriously think I have a hormonal problem: I constantly want to have sex. I wonder if I don't have an overload of testosterone in my body since I stopped the bc pill. It's been increasing little by little over the past couple years, since I decided to stop taking bc pills. But at this point, I seriously feel horrible if I can't have sex at least once a day. By horrible I mean frustrated and in a really bad mood, while having sex makes me in the best possible mood. Sometimes I think I wanna jump on some guys, and rape them. If I don't have a steady date, which I don't at the moment, I am tempted to go out to clubs just to come home with someone to fuck. I feel like a guy. This is really bad! What's wrong with me???? And btw I don't come home with someone to fuck every night I'm not a slut... but I wish I could, however I don't. The point is, to want to, is a problem, I think.
     
  2. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Mmm... You are young. Doesn't sound like anything is wrong with you.

    Do you have anything to take your mind off sex? What have you tried to do to be in a better mood?
     
  3. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    I must have the same problem...
     
  4. Strawberry_Fields_Fo

    Strawberry_Fields_Fo RN

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    Do you masterbate?
     
  5. green faerie

    green faerie m L e

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    yeah, i think masturbating would help a lot. invest in a high quality vibrator too, that should hold you over until you have a steady partner who can appreciate your....passion. : )
     
  6. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    I do have lots of stuff to think about besides sex!! lol I mean I don't really think about it, I just want it a lot, and have it a lot, but if I can't, there's a problem. I have a vibrator too thanks but it's not the same.. of course.. I mean, I'm not a nymphette.. I just think it's insane how much I need sex now I haven't been on birth control for so long, I wonder if it has anything to do with it, or if I'm abnormally sexual or what.
     
  7. come.together

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    haha honestly if you ask me just smoke a lot of pot and youll be too lazy to even wanna have sex
     
  8. couch_monster

    couch_monster Member

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    I was like that till I got pregnant but that's probably not the route you wanna take lol
     
  9. uzume

    uzume Member

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    I'm brand new to these forums but this post caught my eye. I don't think anything is wrong with you. People are all different. I'm in my mid-30's and have always had a high sex drive. My husband's libido is not as high as mine and sometimes that's difficult for me. I would be happy having sex every day, and he's more like a twice-a-week kind of guy.

    I don't have any advice for you....just empathy. I feel your pain! I was single once, too!
     
  10. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    I'm more of a swinger these days.. and as far as sex goes, not being with a steady partner definitely isn't the best.
     
  11. starchild618

    starchild618 get lost

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    besides that i don't know how i ended up here at womens issues, i would say enjoy this thing, and fuck as many guys/girls you can get your pussy around!
     
  12. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    I would but I don't intend to be a huge slut so I try and not be easy
     
  13. wastingthedawn

    wastingthedawn *~Pure Light~*

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    Envy lady! I had that problem...It was a really good problem. I miss those times. whole drive has kind of gone away and it's been a while now since it's come back.I want to be randy all the time again! Enjoy it.
     
  14. starchild618

    starchild618 get lost

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    It al depends on what gifs you more joy i think: joy from the view people have of you, or the joy sex gives you.
     
  15. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    It's not about people's opinion... it's about the opinion of myself I have.. really.. I don't care what people think..
     
  16. starchild618

    starchild618 get lost

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    Maybe.


    How did this opinion origanate in the first place?
     
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