i'm noticing i'm not the only one here that was raised by spawn of satan. this thread is for those of us that need a new, different, better mother than the evil one that squeezed us out or adopted us only to hate us. i could seriously write several novels on what that vile woman did (and is still doing) to me.
I'm definitely a member of this club. Just to name ONE of things she's done to me: She stole two of my $450 car payments, putting me two months behind on my bill AND about 3 months ago told my dad to take the car I bought with my money (but was in my dads name for insurance purposes) because she wrecked her car. I haven't talked to her or seen her in a year. I hope it stays that way.
My mother was a lifelong alcoholic, physical and sexual abuser and a paranoid sociopath. She died in 2000. I miss her like I miss athlete's foot.
it's not whining if it's fact. nothing like over hearing the woman that legally kidnapped you from her brother bad mouth you to your grandma on the phone...
I would prefer the adjective bad for mine. Can I start the fathers thread? I have a lot of issues there.
hang in there, folks. the old assholes all die eventually. now if you could just cut them out of your psyche...
i'm so sorry, boogie. that's terrible. i can't imagine not having my mom to lean on from time to time.
Mine was too young and didn't really do much for me when I needed it most. We're good now, though. She seems to be trying hard to make up for it, which just makes me feel bad because she was just a kid when she had me. My dad is still a self-centered jerk, though.
Can I be vice-prez? I hate the bitch. i cant wait for her to die. I will take the biggest deep breath of my life. I havent talked to her in over a year. Ive grunted at her. She came over this friday, and she saw that I was home and didnt come in. I told my sister Im gonna put up a 'Beware of Hilder' sign. lol
my mommy made me be home by midnight on school nights and she bought me the blue BMW instead of the pink one for my sweet 16! i hope she rots in hell!!!
I'm a former member. Mom used to be nutso to a high degree.....severe manic depression and bi-polar. One day she would give me the car and $50 for a night on the town (at the age of 12), and the next she would be throwing plates across the room because I looked at her weird. That was just one week out of several years. But she is on meds now and is a whole other person than who she used to be. She's working hard to make up for the past and I am just now begining to respect her.
Boog, I know an old couple in England who never had children. They are quiet and conservative, but they never judge and they stay out of other peoples' business. They like folk music and have lots of peruvian rugs. The husband is a vegetarian and a very talented cook, he can cook vegan as well. Shall I put in a word for you?
yes.. and like freak said.. i can't leave california for the next four years. i've already burned through two sets of parents... do i really deserve another?