i have a crush on someone in this forum

I think GreenButterflyDaisy is hot. I'd like to chat with her, but I'm too shy to take action. I guess the first step is admitting it.

 

hmm interesting, so long as it remains a crush at most then i guess no harm could come of it...

how do you aproach women in real life if you cant even PM one over the internet?

 

Too late, she's married.

 

well i have social problems

 

most girls in real life call me a scumbag. i'll just leave it at that.

 

good point but if you wear a hat maybe nobody will notice... hehe sawwy that was a corny joke hehe

 

"most girls in real life call me a scumbag. i'll just leave it at that."
why would they call you a scumbag?

 

usually when i am at school and the sad thing is that these are college girls. I'm at the point where if u don't like me for who i am then fuck u. they're not worth my time. there's a chick out there like me maybe we'll find each other one day. who know's.

 

Meh fuck bitches.

i am not refering to all women but if these girls are going to try and crush your confidence for no good reason then fuck what they think.

if i were you i would stop worrying about getting a girl friend and perhaps just try and become friends with some girls? i find alot of girls are alot more aproachable and friendly if they know you are not just trying to fuck them... get to know them first and if there is chemistry then start making moves on 'em

the good thing about doing that is you end up not caring what the bitchy but hot girls think anyway...

 

You IMed meeeeeeee and I didn't call you a scumbag. You're a nice guy. All you need is some self confidence!

And I agree with Xac... there are lots of really crappy girls out there who are completely self absorbed, so if you get some friends who happen to be girls, you'll be able to easier distinguish between the crappy ones and the good ones. True love is just friendship with a twist.

 

she is hot, talk to her. she just got married I believe though.

 

That's really profound, you're going to have me thinking about that one all day now

Alex

 

"That's really profound, you're going to have me thinking about that one all day now"

dont i get some credit? it was derived from my wisdom

 

We're all profound kids here at hipforums.

 

damn. i havent been that hateful in a long time. you gotta learn to not give a fuck in a positive way. like evryone is OK untill proven wrong. you seem to be thinkin everyone is an asshole until proven wrong. or maybe everyone is an asshole to you.. i used to have that problem, a few things can change that
[1] appearance! look presentable, look confident, and *clean* of course! haha
[2] dont talk negatively about ANYTHING the first few times you talk to anyone.
[3] seem interested, even if its a lame conversation
[3]laugh joke, smile
[4] say please, thank you, and such. and be the first person to say "hi" and stuff.

this works, trust me. and if you already do all that, then wow, i dunno, good luck.
now go get mackin'

 

heehee, im a fag

 

"heehee, im a fag "

well if you say you are homosexual who am i to doubt you? but anyway your advice is true. for me personally i dont get out much so i get really chatty and it isnt hard for me to talk to people or be friendly...

 

o man it took me forever to be chatty.
im soooo, anxious, and shit....
it took a lot of friends, medicine (which im off now), consouling (sp) and shit to help me be ok with the world. but i must say, i like it a lot better this way

 

hey i am a super anxious person but when i do feel comfortable and getting chatting i really get into it!

 

theres a couple people on this forum id like to kick it with, but you all live so damn far away! im lonely lately