I have 1 friend.

My name is michael and I go to school. I have 1 friend at school. Today someone asked my friend why he hangs out with me. I almost started crying. Then later i was in another class and my friend was sitting behind me. I started talking to my friend when everyone els was talking to each other in the class. Then the teacher told me to stop talking and moved my friend to the other end of the class. Because of that I skipped school and went home and cried. Also like last we I was playing around and threw a paper ball at him then this kid said do you have a crush on him or something? Typing this is making me cry right now. I am only 14 and I am so lonely.

 

why do you think you only have one friend?

what do you think is the reason?

talk to us michael..

 

Hey man...I know what your saying. You just gotta stick it out man, hold your head up high and be proud of who you are...try not to take the opinions of others to heart. An opinion only means as much as you let it mean. Dont let others bring you down. It might not look like it now, but eventually you'll find people who are soo in tune with you. Just stick it out man...your a freshman I'm guessing...your in your last couple years. Be grateful for what you have, and eventually things will pick themselves up for you.

wishing much much much peace and love,
Lauren

Feel free to p.m. if you need to man...no one deserves to feel lonely

 

Hey, chin up matey!

In my experience, as I didn't have many friends and still don't, I have realized it matters very little. In fact, of the few good friends I had in my school days, I am still best friends wit all of them. All these popular kids burnt out as they got older, and find themselves deeply unhappy as they ignorance grants them no life long companionship.

Just hang on to your one friend, and I am sure you will make more. There is someone out there now wondering the same thing.

And remember, sticks and stones. I really hope you're OK, I hate bullies and it sounds like a few people are giving you unnecessary grief.

 

ya...also start making friends here....she^[california]has never told me to pm her and i am really lonely also....definitely hold your head high no matter what

this too shall pass

 

aww you can pm me to! :grouphug:

 

I think I only have one friend because I go to an all black and spanish school and for some reason every class I go to has the same kids in it. My friends name is Kerby and he is black but he gets picked on too and today some kids were hitting him. I think I will start fighting because I am the second tallest kid in the class and I am a year older then everyone els.

 

fighting doesnt prove anything man.....

 

Beating people up won't make them like you.
You should learn to just not worry about it.
If they see that the bullying doesn't bother you, then they'll quit.
The only reason they continue to bully you is because the reaction their are getting from you satisfies them. Don't give them that reaction and they have no motivation to continue.

 

I dont want them to like me. I dont like them. almost every single person in my class is mean to me and I dont want them to like me because they are assholes.

 

^^^

 

Fighting is dumb, but as a man I must admit

If someone hits you first, defend yourself. I don't condone violence but letting kids hit you and your friend is only going to let these kids no they can get away with it.

Although I should be telling you to report it, and maybe you should, just don't take any crap from them either.

 

fighting? what do you think that will solve? what has violence ever solved in the past?

you should definitely stand up for yourself and your friend but fighting wont prove anything and you'll be lowering yourself to the level of the bullies at your school.

you seem like you realize that the way they treat you and your friend is wrong so try to be above that and just realize that in the long run, you will be better off than them.

and dont let them get to you. be yourself. high school is a truely awful place and my advice to you is to get out as quick as possible. take summer school, and maybe and online class at a college or something for extra credits and try to graduate early. thats what i did and im graduating this june and im only a junior.

just come to this site a lot, you'll make tons of friends.

 

I am not really fighting I am just defending myself because they hit me all of the time. I think it is sad because my only friend gets hit and when he rarely hits them back the teacher yells at him and all of the teachers think me and Kerby (my friend) are bad but we arent. We are just poor kids living in a hell hole and going to a shit school. My mom is addicted to perscription pills and my 5 person family lives in a 1 bedroom 1 bathroom house. I have manners but soon I am just gonna crack and beat the fuck out of some assholes. My life sucks.

 

Seriously, the other people in this thread have obviously never had this problem.

Bullies look for reactions from some people. But some bullies look for those who wont react, because they are themselves cowards.

People who tell you the former are basically just spurting a typical cliche.

But, remember, fighting really doesn't prove anything.

 

My life sucks no one understands. I am poor and My 5 person family lives in a 1 bedroom 1 bathroom house. My mom is addicted to pills and she is gone almost all day or sleeping. My dad is allways at work and my big brother is a dick. I want to never go back to school but if I am going back I am fighting back because whenever I tell the teacher they lie or the teacher just tells them to stop even though they keep doing it.

 

Well either way trying to beat people up is only going to make it worse for yourself.

 

You are right not to want to be like them, I'm so sorry you are in this situation, but good can come from any bad situation too. Instead of fighting and crying, use the energy to make yourself determined to do well in the future and get yourself out of this way of life, maybe you could take notes of your experiences, and one day write a book, or something like that, just think to yourself, one day I will show you bastards lol, and be determined to make something of yourself...

 

Sometimes I wish I was someone else, but mostly I’m glad I’m ME!
We all have our likes and differences as everyone can see.
Some of us like to hurry, some like to take our time.
Some spend all their money, some save each dime.
Some are good at English; some are good at math.
Some of us like showers some prefer the bath.
Some of us are quiet; some of us are loud.
Some of us like to be alone; some of us like a crowd.
Some of us are tall; some of us are short.
Some like to play an instrument, some like to play a sport.
Some of us are black or brown, and some of us are white.
Some of us leave the light on when we go to bed at night.
All of us are special as everyone can see,
You like you, and I like you, but also I like ME!
Michael your my friend + 1

 

Now that I am older, I would rather have one good friend than have ten who aren't so good. Saying that, I never really wanted to be popular, but had a few people who didn't bully me as such, but were just bitches and it did make me angry and I thought about getting them into trouble some way to pay them back. But I let it go, because people like that they really aren't worth the effort or the hurt.

Like Balqis said, make something of yourself. If you started fighting now, in a few years you'll look back on it and wish that you hadn't. You'll end up better than them for sure.